if one looks for bad things, one should not be surprised when they find them … conversely the same is true for good things – but they must be looked for and not ignored.
No one is “horrible” or “bad” unless the go out of their way to TRY to be such – if you are, in fact, trying … maybe it’s time to stop and try something different.
What others think of you is their problem – not yours – what you think of you IS your problem and completely within your control to change however you choose.
im not asking you to save yourself ……just asking for you to open up and give someone a chance to save you……you’re begging for someone to understand you and so many people are reaching out their hands to you
ARE YOU GONNA HOLD ON AND BE BOUGHT BACK TO THE LIGHT OR PUSH THEM AWAY ?
I am included in “everybody”, “nobody”, “world” and “everything” – and I reject every statement you made – they are all false
your “actions” will have no effect on “saving” me – I am NOT “wrong” and I’ll choose to hear whatever i please
end of drama class – please focus on reality instead of some unrealistic romantic fantasy how you will save the world with your demise – if you “can’t save yourself” it’s because you refuse to try – nothing wrong with that but don’t try and justify it using others as an excuse or scapegoat – it’s all on you – your choice – always has been
A wise man once told me that
We must work for that which no work is required.
On the surface changing how we view the world ought to be a simple matter of choice.
A matter of will as it where and it is but it isn’t’
Choosing to focuses on the positive is a great first step however if at the foundation of our inner self has a sense of not being/having enough – not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, rich enough… then it’s going to be difficult. A act of Will take’s energy to maintain so eventually an act of will, will falter and we will find ourselves disappointed.
Change can only begin with the confrontation with the illusions and stories, victim and villain stories, which get in our way.
It takes time and a lot of work for a choice to become a part of us but once its apart of us no work at all.
Interesting … and here i though it was YOU being “harsh” … on yourself 😉
I’m just asking you to see the facts as they are – not as you perceive them – an apple is an apple – it could be a meal, a weapon (thrown) or a pipe to smoke pot from (yes, it can) … but it IS just an apple.
To clarify … drive a car … look too far (the future) up the road and you WILL run into the car in front of you (or a tree or other nearby obstruction) … look in the rear view mirror (the past) too long and you WILL run into the car in front of you.
you will not get where you’re going if you don’t focus on the here and now – the present – navigate the obstacles right there – not the ones behind you or way far in front of you – because if you don’t get through the ones here you’re never get to the ones there … and – you can only drive YOUR car – not the cars of others – they have to drive them, rightly or wrongly – they drive them, not you … avoid bad drivers and you’ll stay safe and get where you’re going
additionally – as long as the engine (the heart) of the car is in running condition – what the body looks like has no effect on the journey. a dented and dinged car can get from point A to point B just as effectively as a showroom new car
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What the sad face?
i think you are a great person who needs to live
I’m a horrible person.
read my story im a horrible person nt you
if one looks for bad things, one should not be surprised when they find them … conversely the same is true for good things – but they must be looked for and not ignored.
No one is “horrible” or “bad” unless the go out of their way to TRY to be such – if you are, in fact, trying … maybe it’s time to stop and try something different.
What others think of you is their problem – not yours – what you think of you IS your problem and completely within your control to change however you choose.
dawg
I don’t have to go out of my way to try to be horrible. I was born disgusting. I should have died when I was brought into this world.
I wish I could change how I see myself but I can’t. I loathe myself. I SHOULD BE DEAD.
NOBODY SHOULD HEAR MY FINAL PRAYERS.
I CAN’T SAVE MYSELF.
I’VE PULLED MYSELF UNDER JUST TO SAVE EVERYBODY ELSE.
EVERYTHING’S GONE WRONG.
I’ll never be good enough.
im not asking you to save yourself ……just asking for you to open up and give someone a chance to save you……you’re begging for someone to understand you and so many people are reaching out their hands to you
ARE YOU GONNA HOLD ON AND BE BOUGHT BACK TO THE LIGHT OR PUSH THEM AWAY ?
I don’t think you’re “disgusting or horrible”
I am included in “everybody”, “nobody”, “world” and “everything” – and I reject every statement you made – they are all false
your “actions” will have no effect on “saving” me – I am NOT “wrong” and I’ll choose to hear whatever i please
end of drama class – please focus on reality instead of some unrealistic romantic fantasy how you will save the world with your demise – if you “can’t save yourself” it’s because you refuse to try – nothing wrong with that but don’t try and justify it using others as an excuse or scapegoat – it’s all on you – your choice – always has been
reality dawg
A wise man once told me that
We must work for that which no work is required.
On the surface changing how we view the world ought to be a simple matter of choice.
A matter of will as it where and it is but it isn’t’
Choosing to focuses on the positive is a great first step however if at the foundation of our inner self has a sense of not being/having enough – not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, rich enough… then it’s going to be difficult. A act of Will take’s energy to maintain so eventually an act of will, will falter and we will find ourselves disappointed.
Change can only begin with the confrontation with the illusions and stories, victim and villain stories, which get in our way.
It takes time and a lot of work for a choice to become a part of us but once its apart of us no work at all.
Very wise Left22 – nothing changes if nothing changes – and without a conscious effort to change, change cannot begin.
alternative dawg
I don’t understand why you’re being so harsh.
Interesting … and here i though it was YOU being “harsh” … on yourself 😉
I’m just asking you to see the facts as they are – not as you perceive them – an apple is an apple – it could be a meal, a weapon (thrown) or a pipe to smoke pot from (yes, it can) … but it IS just an apple.
grounded dawg
Okay. Thank you for your input. I appreciate it.
You’re welcome 🙂
To clarify … drive a car … look too far (the future) up the road and you WILL run into the car in front of you (or a tree or other nearby obstruction) … look in the rear view mirror (the past) too long and you WILL run into the car in front of you.
you will not get where you’re going if you don’t focus on the here and now – the present – navigate the obstacles right there – not the ones behind you or way far in front of you – because if you don’t get through the ones here you’re never get to the ones there … and – you can only drive YOUR car – not the cars of others – they have to drive them, rightly or wrongly – they drive them, not you … avoid bad drivers and you’ll stay safe and get where you’re going
pilot dawg
additionally – as long as the engine (the heart) of the car is in running condition – what the body looks like has no effect on the journey. a dented and dinged car can get from point A to point B just as effectively as a showroom new car
sales dawg
I love this example that you have given. Thanks.