People are constantly asking what did they do? REALLY!!! PEOPLE IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU!!! Is it just me or do others see it as well? Sorry for yelling that! Were we that mean? Why are you mad at me? What did I do? People just stop for a second and realize that hello my life and my emotions are not centered around you. Ok?
Sorry just venting, another way that they try to guilt you into feeling better. I just want to be left alone get it?
Had a friend take me to a couple of doctor appts. the other day, and they had the nerve to ask if they could go into the appointment with me, lol, of course my reply was no, but get this, the next statement was how am I supposed to know what they say? I replied I’ll tell you if you need to know, to which they said that is not the way I planned it. If I hadn’t been in the middle of a full waiting room I would have fallen out of the chair laughing hysterically. Seriously why do they think they have the right to “plan” anything regarding me my health, this is only a friend so they say.
I am typically a very quiet person, never have had a lot to say, was raised to only speak when spoken to and or when you have something important to say. So when people around me talk just to hear themselves talk it is kind of annoying. Other things that annoy me is when you get a forced greeting just so they can say they tried to talk to you, but I’m a firm believer if your not sincere then don’t say anything.
It is so obviously fake when you do speak, so just keep quiet and don’t make matters worse, ok?
Thanks for the space to vent!
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Good on you for standing up for yourself. You’re doctors appointments are no one else’s business but yours. It’s horrible when other people assume they know what’s best for you