there is love all around you sure sometimes it fades during surcamstances but it will always be there no matter what , you should never thing your unloved xxxx
Thank u and everyone loves differantly. I can’t be sore about her I was her longest boyfriend 4 months and she apeared to make the best love I ever had. I can say she was the worst and the best of all my g friends and loved me better than everyone. So for what’s its worth thank lohna
if you can not receive nor give love….what use is it to have blind faith that it is really there? This is simply an illusion. You can believe until you’re blue in the face but without it having impact all it is is a word…
e.g
If you are blind and deaf and somebody gives you a book what use is it?
You can not read the words
You can not have the words read to you
you can not learn braille as how can someone teach you without common means of communication?
to know there are words and stories out there others are privy to but not you is pure torture.
That is so for a life without love.
To give love doesn’t imply a receipt of love returned. There is a limit to how much love one can give with nothing in return. That’s where I am at. Am i alone?
I agree but I’m a giver and it doesn’t get old to me I wish that the person I liked would be honest and come clean with me I think it sucks when people have confused loyalties and I come last but she found some guy at a bar so oh welllllll. ILL get over it
perhaps they are unloved! Why are you convinced they are not? The only love ANYONE can know for sure is the love one has for themselves…From their comments it sounds like that isn’t a given. I wish there was a way to really connect all the lonely people in the world…
Society puts way too much emphasis on denying how some people naturally feel. There would be a lot more loveability in the world if most people who are in this head space could be heard for what they really feel…couldn’t we just say
” Hi…my name is OVERIT…I feel used and abused and pretty shitty about the world….up until now I have no reason to expect anyone i meet wont hurt me ..but I am loyal and dependable and if you dont treat me like shit and tell me how you really feel then we could be friends..
Wow at least we think alike. Thank you u made me smile and ur right I normaly ask what are your. :wants /needs / goals/: desires. And if we had great sex and love and lust. You would be suprised cuz I hear the just want to be loved and never say how. For me I want to feel wanted and needed buy only one person. I get sprung easy and I keep selling myself short when I know my worth. http://lnkd.in/N4Tsp3. Thank u I’m over it. Lifes to short not to be wanted
I’m just depressed and feeling worthless I’m just tired of being played. Some people play to many games. Honestly I’d rather die than be played. Somepeople don’t understand how games hurt people more than they know. I loved someone that thinks its ok to cheat for gain and now I’m sick because I trusted in a lie
what do you mean Silent Screams? are you referring to “in love ” or general love [ like friends /family etc?]
I’m referring the later.
I do wonder how , even though I know intellectually I am loved [ my parents tell me they do], how it is that I do not FEEL loved? what’s with that? Surely I can’t be the only one that feels this way.
I’m still unclear on how you know for sure that Bryan IS loved ? If he FEELS unloved then isn’t perception HIS reality?
Wow and I’m not loved I’m just a target for broke people. And its funny even all the gold in the world can’t make me happy I think I am crazy I try and make a pigs ear into a silk purse and its not possable. I need a new and high standard on girl friends I’m thinking I can make a whore into a house wife and I can’t.
p.s wouldn’t life be great if we could shut off our minds….oops I forgot, that’s what alcohol and drugs are for…except that I dont drink OR take drugs….Goddamit! I wish I did though…How is this the only answer out there. Are there alternatives? I am not a cutter….my thoughts are my self harm.
partial lobotomy…they had it right in the movie ” one flew over the cuckoo’s nest”
I hear you Bryan. Many whores in the world that’s for sure….and that’s coming from me..a 36 year woman. Money doesn’t solve a thing…believe me I hear you. I’ve never wanted for anything..best education, upper echelons of society and all its taught me is how cruel people can be. Sometimes …Like RIGHT NOW, I dream of running away to s small country town where no one knows I have money and I can be anonymous and pretend I come from humble means so people can see me for who I am….A broken soul who seemingly has it all…but really has nothing. Bryan,Unfortunately you will always attract whores because that’s who’ s attracted to money…emotionally rich people don’t need it….and with it…the emotionally rich become whores. What a conundrum ! Bryan…is there anyway you can live without the money? I’m going to give it a try…because so far it’s bought me nothing but pain and misery.
U sound like a counsler. Lol. And once again ur right but I like $$ so I’m thinking of mail order bride there not whores there a long time rental lol take care of there family and they take care of u. To bad this isn’t a date site. I’d ask u out. U sound like u know me better than me. Have a good morning and I’m over her. I get like this because in order for me to move on I have to mourn. Like there dead. Its a spiritual thing
so your a giver…that’s fantastic that you haven’t become cynical like the rest of us! although it doesn’t sound like she has confused loyalties…she’s selfish…nothing confusing ’bout that. You are a better human than I, there’s no way I could trust again…but it’s great that you can . I don’t know you of course but it sounds like you have your shit together more than you think?? is that right?
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there is love all around you sure sometimes it fades during surcamstances but it will always be there no matter what , you should never thing your unloved xxxx
Thank you I think I just whant what I never had
Thank u and everyone loves differantly. I can’t be sore about her I was her longest boyfriend 4 months and she apeared to make the best love I ever had. I can say she was the worst and the best of all my g friends and loved me better than everyone. So for what’s its worth thank lohna
if you can not receive nor give love….what use is it to have blind faith that it is really there? This is simply an illusion. You can believe until you’re blue in the face but without it having impact all it is is a word…
e.g
If you are blind and deaf and somebody gives you a book what use is it?
You can not read the words
You can not have the words read to you
you can not learn braille as how can someone teach you without common means of communication?
to know there are words and stories out there others are privy to but not you is pure torture.
That is so for a life without love.
To give love doesn’t imply a receipt of love returned. There is a limit to how much love one can give with nothing in return. That’s where I am at. Am i alone?
I agree but I’m a giver and it doesn’t get old to me I wish that the person I liked would be honest and come clean with me I think it sucks when people have confused loyalties and I come last but she found some guy at a bar so oh welllllll. ILL get over it
perhaps they are unloved! Why are you convinced they are not? The only love ANYONE can know for sure is the love one has for themselves…From their comments it sounds like that isn’t a given. I wish there was a way to really connect all the lonely people in the world…
Society puts way too much emphasis on denying how some people naturally feel. There would be a lot more loveability in the world if most people who are in this head space could be heard for what they really feel…couldn’t we just say
” Hi…my name is OVERIT…I feel used and abused and pretty shitty about the world….up until now I have no reason to expect anyone i meet wont hurt me ..but I am loyal and dependable and if you dont treat me like shit and tell me how you really feel then we could be friends..
Could this be the answer?
Wow at least we think alike. Thank you u made me smile and ur right I normaly ask what are your. :wants /needs / goals/: desires. And if we had great sex and love and lust. You would be suprised cuz I hear the just want to be loved and never say how. For me I want to feel wanted and needed buy only one person. I get sprung easy and I keep selling myself short when I know my worth. http://lnkd.in/N4Tsp3. Thank u I’m over it. Lifes to short not to be wanted
U seam like u have ur shit together and ur answers are to die for lol. Ur cool
You cant just have love like that.True love with someone ypu didnt mean to that way you really did fall in love.but someone loves you anyways
I’m just depressed and feeling worthless I’m just tired of being played. Some people play to many games. Honestly I’d rather die than be played. Somepeople don’t understand how games hurt people more than they know. I loved someone that thinks its ok to cheat for gain and now I’m sick because I trusted in a lie
what do you mean Silent Screams? are you referring to “in love ” or general love [ like friends /family etc?]
I’m referring the later.
I do wonder how , even though I know intellectually I am loved [ my parents tell me they do], how it is that I do not FEEL loved? what’s with that? Surely I can’t be the only one that feels this way.
I’m still unclear on how you know for sure that Bryan IS loved ? If he FEELS unloved then isn’t perception HIS reality?
Wow and I’m not loved I’m just a target for broke people. And its funny even all the gold in the world can’t make me happy I think I am crazy I try and make a pigs ear into a silk purse and its not possable. I need a new and high standard on girl friends I’m thinking I can make a whore into a house wife and I can’t.
p.s wouldn’t life be great if we could shut off our minds….oops I forgot, that’s what alcohol and drugs are for…except that I dont drink OR take drugs….Goddamit! I wish I did though…How is this the only answer out there. Are there alternatives? I am not a cutter….my thoughts are my self harm.
partial lobotomy…they had it right in the movie ” one flew over the cuckoo’s nest”
Key word is communication. It changes ever ten min
I hear you Bryan. Many whores in the world that’s for sure….and that’s coming from me..a 36 year woman. Money doesn’t solve a thing…believe me I hear you. I’ve never wanted for anything..best education, upper echelons of society and all its taught me is how cruel people can be. Sometimes …Like RIGHT NOW, I dream of running away to s small country town where no one knows I have money and I can be anonymous and pretend I come from humble means so people can see me for who I am….A broken soul who seemingly has it all…but really has nothing. Bryan,Unfortunately you will always attract whores because that’s who’ s attracted to money…emotionally rich people don’t need it….and with it…the emotionally rich become whores. What a conundrum ! Bryan…is there anyway you can live without the money? I’m going to give it a try…because so far it’s bought me nothing but pain and misery.
U sound like a counsler. Lol. And once again ur right but I like $$ so I’m thinking of mail order bride there not whores there a long time rental lol take care of there family and they take care of u. To bad this isn’t a date site. I’d ask u out. U sound like u know me better than me. Have a good morning and I’m over her. I get like this because in order for me to move on I have to mourn. Like there dead. Its a spiritual thing
so your a giver…that’s fantastic that you haven’t become cynical like the rest of us! although it doesn’t sound like she has confused loyalties…she’s selfish…nothing confusing ’bout that. You are a better human than I, there’s no way I could trust again…but it’s great that you can . I don’t know you of course but it sounds like you have your shit together more than you think?? is that right?
Ur pretty smart.