Hello!
Sadly I can not post my name because many people would be upset if they knew I did this. I need a friend. I have been bullied from grade 1, almost strangled to death in grade 3, and was threatened to be killed in grade 5. I am in grade 7, and not more than 2 weeks ago I was beat by my “best friend” with a baseball bat. I always have to wonder if things will ever get better. I wonder anyone miss me when I’m gone. Maybe a few. I think most would say “good riddance”. I’ve had a rough past few weeks, and I would like it if I knew someone other than my family cared, so I know I’m not the only. Please, I need a friend now. If anyone else needs a friend, I will be that friend. But my world is collapsing on me. I now face depression and post tramtaic stress disorder. I know I’m not the only one. Please, if your out there, please be that friend I’m looking for.
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I will totally be your friend ^.^ email me if you wish. maryej.russum@yahoo.com
Here is my email: holly_riggs@rocketmail.com
I’ll be happy to be your friend, I was bullied to in school and my college life is still not ok. Whenever you need me, I’m here.
I’ll be your friend. 🙂 Anyone who beats you is definitely NOT a “best friend.”
Yea. U right K.step 1. Get yourself some gymnastic,kungfu,takwando..real crazy ass kicking skill. Those things are cheap and affordable.you can even train yourself with online guilds and videos. Step 2. Kick the shit out of anybody that do so much as to frown or point a bat at you.
Step 3. Look for a best friend with a lighter body mass than you.
Step 4. Join the ass kickers band wagon
I agree with these previous 2 comments, they are really good. It’s hard to believe, but somehow beating someone with a baseball bat makes sense to people. Maybe they had screwed up parents who prattle on about the good ole’ days when they’d bludgeon school classmates. Maybe they watch The Godfather movie when someone’s head gets crushed, then leave the theater thinking that being the basher would be a good thing? There is no hope for your “best friend,” (s)he will probably be dead within 5 years, and ought to be in prison right now.
I cannot imagine being that screwed up, but I’ve met with a few people who are. One guy from my block hitched a ride with me and my best friend he was coming down off drugs and stabbed me 5 time when we dropped him off. My best friend had to drive me to the nearest hospital and Stabby McStabAlot got some chick pregnant then went to prison.
Stabby cried like a baby in the court room. He begged me to forgive him after the guilty verdict. We all felt sorry for Stabby because we figured that he’d be getting humped in prison on a regular basis. Anyway thanks for sharing a part of your story AAB and welcome aboard.
Thank you so much guys. I’ve been down in the dumps constantly, even had nightmares that are relentless. I must thank you all SO much. I’m glad to know I am not alone in this, and coitus, I am really sorry for Stupid Stabby. I’m actaully sorry for anyone who’s been bullied.
Thank you, all, for reading my story, for letting me know I am not alone.
P.S. I’ve taken Tae Kwon Doe, but I’m now extremely passive and probably won’t use it, even if I needed to.
You’re never alone. That’s not to say we’re all creepy weirdo’s who stalk you, just that we can empathise and be here when you need to talk or whatever. I’m pretty sure each person’s email should be next to their name in the Comments section when you look at this post. Feel free to talk to me anyway if you feel the need to, I don’t own a baseball bat. <3
You shouldn't need to have to put up with a 'Best friend' like that. They're nothing to you, clearly they didn't give a shit about you.
Your best chance is to report it to the police
this was last year. he no longer lives to me. he beat he so bad after i was in the hospital. haven’t spoken since.
this was last year. he no longer lives to me. he beat he so bad after i was in the hospital. haven’t spoken since.
idunnowhatever1(at)gmail(dot)com if you want it. Bullying is quite overrated, so at least we agree on something!
Hey.. Ill be your friend..Trust me im a good friend 😀
Email me?
moister.skater@hotmail.com
There is just something about your post that grabbed my heart…I will be what you are looking for. Marlene.j.salvatore@gmail.com. I took Tae Kwon do (black belt) too but I never used because I’m passive to ever use it. But it did keep me in shape 🙂
Thank you all for reading my post. I really didn’t know there would be so many people who cared.
I am currently doing a project against bullying, and I found some shocking information.
Every 7 minutes somebody is bullied.
Overall, adults only intervene 4% of the time, and fellow peers 14% of the time, leaving 85% of bullying cases left alone. Thankfully, I am one of the lucky ones, but I know I am not the only one.
I would appreciate if you guys could check out my project, a video in honour of Amanda Todd. It isn’t complete yet, but once I am done, I will post it on a website I’m making.
Again, thank you all so much for everything!
Bullying is ridiculous. I had to deal with it through my elementary school years and my two years spent in middle school. I was never ‘beat’ physically, but mentally and emotionally, I was beaten all the time. I dressed darkly, and my makeup and hair added to the ‘goth’ look. People didn’t understand, and they could see that I was not like them. So they made it known that I was different, but it wasn’t in a constructive criticism way. “Freak”, “Goth”, “Crazy *****”, “Antichrist”, and a few more names were whispered through out the hallways about me during those years, and I heard them all the time. It was incredibly hurtful, and I became very depressed about it. My self-esteem was shot to hell, which led to me cutting myself at the very young age of 11.
Now that I am older, I realize how much damage words can do to a person, and how degrading and idiotic kids are these days. I can’t really blame the kids themselves, because those types of attitudes didn’t sprout from just any where. I blame their parents more, because parents have a very large influence on their children, more than I think they realize sometimes.
My dad (who was born in 53), tells me all the time that things in this society are not what they used to be. Bullying wasn’t as extreme as it is today back then, (beatings, extreme name calling, etc.), and the victims of bullying didn’t react as strongly (suicide, bringing guns to school and shooting everyone up, cutting themselves, etc.) Manners were taught to every child back then, and there were only one or two who were ‘out of place’ or not taught the ‘right’ way. I believe very strongly that parenting has been fogged up somehow during the years, and that people have grown more impatient, lazy, incredibly impolite, and have lost common sense. We see it every day, sometimes without realizing it.
In order to stop bullying, we should be with our children more and teach them that it is NOT OKAY to judge others based on their physical appearance, their religion, their accent, their intelligence or lack of, or their nationality. It’s not okay, and it always hurts people to be judged. I know how I felt, and I hate to see others feel it too. It’s horrible, and we have all heard of people as young as 9 take their own lives because of being bullied at school or elsewhere. It’s not okay, and it should stop.
I am all for ‘Anti-Bullying’, and I will be a friend to anyone who is or was a victim and has the same beliefs as I do on this subject.
You are not alone.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrbL1s9qwBs