I need someone to help me. I feel so alone. I haven’t got any friends to talk to about this and to top it all off, my family basically hates me. I feel like I should just end my life… Could anybody out there comfort me?
im certain there are a few people out there who would be able to comfort you, but in the long run u need to comfort yourself. the lack there of, of friends is hard. i know this i have no friends, and my family hates me to, i currently have no family. but i manage to get by. since you are all you have in this world, u need to love yourself. if you do not like your own self, then you are truly alone.
you need to find away to come to terms with yourself, and then perhaps you will find it easier to make friends. a person of extreme anger or sadness gives of a vibe, and no one wants to really be around that. learn to deal with whats going on, and make peace with it, then your life will move on. if people hate you, laugh them of, u wont be around them forever
You are most certainly NOT alone and you ARE loved! Please bear with me as I give you some comforting words:
1) this is Jesus speaking to His disciples: And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever (John 14:16). Do you see that you are not alone, whether it be God the father, Jesus or the Holy Spirit, you are never, ever alone.
2) I am sure that your family does not hate you. I am sure that if you killed yourself, they would cry and mourn for you….that is not hate
3) if you want to talk about what is wrong, you can respond to this comment and I will listen to you and try to help put things in perspective
4) if people could come to terms with themselves, don’t you think they would? sometimes people cannot but it doesn’t mean the end of the world…sometimes, we all need help and there’s nothing to be ashamed about that. Asking for help is a courageous step and the first step to take
5) speak with people who have wisdom, who can help…do not listen to every voice out there
I could go on, but I think this is a good beginning….what do you think?
I have the same problem as you do. I go to a school out of my own town, what do you think it felt like when everyone knows everyone and I feel like a total outsider and left alone most of the time? My family, too, dislikes me. They don’t like me being me. They want me to be someone they want me to be and I wondered if they have had another child in my place before I was born.
If you need a friend, we’re all friends. We share thoughts together on this website even when we completely don’t know each other. I’d be honoured if we be friends and exchange our thoughts. Be strong. Take care and good luck.
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im certain there are a few people out there who would be able to comfort you, but in the long run u need to comfort yourself. the lack there of, of friends is hard. i know this i have no friends, and my family hates me to, i currently have no family. but i manage to get by. since you are all you have in this world, u need to love yourself. if you do not like your own self, then you are truly alone.
you need to find away to come to terms with yourself, and then perhaps you will find it easier to make friends. a person of extreme anger or sadness gives of a vibe, and no one wants to really be around that. learn to deal with whats going on, and make peace with it, then your life will move on. if people hate you, laugh them of, u wont be around them forever
Thorn,
You are most certainly NOT alone and you ARE loved! Please bear with me as I give you some comforting words:
1) this is Jesus speaking to His disciples: And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever (John 14:16). Do you see that you are not alone, whether it be God the father, Jesus or the Holy Spirit, you are never, ever alone.
2) I am sure that your family does not hate you. I am sure that if you killed yourself, they would cry and mourn for you….that is not hate
3) if you want to talk about what is wrong, you can respond to this comment and I will listen to you and try to help put things in perspective
4) if people could come to terms with themselves, don’t you think they would? sometimes people cannot but it doesn’t mean the end of the world…sometimes, we all need help and there’s nothing to be ashamed about that. Asking for help is a courageous step and the first step to take
5) speak with people who have wisdom, who can help…do not listen to every voice out there
I could go on, but I think this is a good beginning….what do you think?
I have the same problem as you do. I go to a school out of my own town, what do you think it felt like when everyone knows everyone and I feel like a total outsider and left alone most of the time? My family, too, dislikes me. They don’t like me being me. They want me to be someone they want me to be and I wondered if they have had another child in my place before I was born.
If you need a friend, we’re all friends. We share thoughts together on this website even when we completely don’t know each other. I’d be honoured if we be friends and exchange our thoughts. Be strong. Take care and good luck.
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