I know what people will say, “you shouldn’t have done that”. I am very well aware and very regretful that I loved and trusted someone who would do this to me. It’s gotten to the point where some of my friends were sent those pictures from fake profiles, and my little brother was sent them as well. I am extremely depressed, embarrassed and afraid. He put all my information linked to the pictures so I’m getting harassed. This was someone i loved and trusted. Â We hurt each other a lot but I never cheated on him or anything of the sort. For the first time in my life, tonight, I am certain I want to die.
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wow. thats like the most fucked up thing ever. fuck that dude! if the universe is fair then cute ass bunnies will eat him alive (bunnies are cute making his death ironic and therefore less of a sober affair, ultimately devaluing the significance of his death). at his funeral “cotton-eyed joe” will be played as his body is slowly lowered into the grave.
You could try contacting webmasters and getting them taken down… i mean obviously some damage is done, but if you could get them removed that would be good.
I suppose you’ll be more careful in the future about who you trust with potentially humiliating things.
But hey, look at it this way: loads of people have nudes on the net. Lots of people do it on purpose. Don’t be ashamed of your nudeness. Politely ask people who mention it (or harass) to leave it, and you, alone. Give the short answer: it wasn’t you, and was done without your permission.
Also:
@raincloudz: “if the universe is fair…”
You can stop right there. It’s not, and it owes no one anything.
I appreciate both of your responses. We’ve filed a takedown notice, but it seems that there isn’t much I can really do. It could take up to 30 days or even longer if they take them down at all. This website is infamous for not caring and allowing this “revenge porn” fad to continue. He was the only person who I had ever allowed to have pictures of me in that way, and we lived together, we had plans of getting married and were together for a while. I was never one to carelessly do things like that.
Please keep fighting. Don’t let that asshole bring you down.
It must be hard to deal with and humilliating, but like the others said, it has happened to so many people, and you have nothing to reproach yourself for. If someone judges you on the basis of those images, they’re superficial and stupid. Don’t let it get to you.
Have you reported him/the website to the police? What he did has got to be illegal.
What a horrible guy.
It’s out there now and there’s nothing you can do about that. I hope that you report him to the police because that’s probably the only thing you can do without taking matters into your own hands.
What goes around comes around and it’s sounds like he needs a serious beating.
In this day and age, that probably happens to a lot of people, so I wouldn’t worry about it too much. I have had some pretty embarrassing times in my life, like when I left college because I was being bullied so badly. I thought that it would never end, but my life is much better now, and like other comments here, I hope that the people who harrassed me got their comeuppance.
Please don’t give up on life. I know that this seems like such a big deal now, but as time goes on, it will be less and less important.
Hope this helps and I want you to hang in there 🙂
Your ex-boyfriend sounds vindictive and spiteful. He wanted to hurt you. I think your best revenge would be to try to remain as unaffected by this as possible. Of course that’s easier said than done if people who know you have nude pics of you.
There are millions of nude pictures on the internet, and everyone’s basically got the same parts. Try not to take it too personally. Someday when you’re older, you’ll be able to look back on this and laugh.
If you want to get back at your ex, perhaps posting a link on this site would show him that you’re not affected by his immaturity. “Owning” these pics, and saying “Yeah, that’s me, see what you’re missing”? might enable you to move forward and put this unfortunate incident behind you. I’m sure you’ll get plenty of positive feedback from people on this site. (If you’re under 18, forget I said anything). Best Wishes
Well – if she is under 18 she could arguably have him arrested for possession and distribution of child porn … FYI – I am not a lawyer or a law enforcement officer – just throwing a thought out there
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It doesnt matter what happens youll come out stronger in the end. Hes an asshole just forget about him If you need someone to talk to im here
I have to say something that may make you feel way better. You are not alone. I want to tell you what I did. I was 18 and I got on the website called Meetme. I talked to a guy that I never met before. We talked for a long time. And he only sent me one picture of him. Look we all know my actions was immature and stupid but I grew up. I sent him pictures of myself nude and all. To this day he harasses me constantly. He sends them to whoever calls me names, tells me I’m ugly and a whore. It’s so bad I get those same pictures sent to me from people I don’t even know but I will tell you this yeah yeah we all make mistakes but many people will blame you and hate you when your business is out but do what I am doing forever now. Making good decisions not putting trust in strangers and owning up to the mistakes I have made. For a girl I have ‘big enough BALLS’ to not be ashamed of my mistakes. Point the finger at me till the day I die and after but you can never say that I was a coward. Be strong