i was thinking out of boredom.. & there’s that question that popped in my mind…. what do you( members of ThesuicideProject ) think of guys who meet girls on Facebook, and after few DAYS, confess & ask her out …?? Â Could it be real in some cases? Should girls trust or try these kinds of relationships ? ……. ^^ just asking hh ^^
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sounds creepy to me. And I tend to fall for people VERY quickly (abandonment issues).
Just sounds like 99% of the time it would end badly and possibly unthinkably bad. Not worth the risk to me.
Just my opinion
If they live nearby, I don’t think it’s creepy. On dating websites sometimes people meet and hook up the same day. Life is short, not everyone has the patience to wait until they ‘fall in love’ with someone. Besides, if they aren’t interested in you, or vice versa, having feelings is no use. Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with going on a few ‘dates’ to get to know each other, instead of wasting all that time communicating and forming attachments when it might never work out.
I’ve dealt with this numerous times before and it’s almost always because they want sex. It made me feel so bad because I thought they really liked me but they didn’t. With that said, there are some cool guys out there. Just don’t trust them unless you have real life friends in common. That’s the safest way. Even then make sure you keep your guard up for a bit until his true intentions are shown
Chances are what we say is not 100%. Guys can be genuine. Honest moment. The only person I have and will probably ever allow to know everything about me and how i feel, well I met her in an online game. I was still pretty young. Never had a relationship. Haha but after less than a month i told her how i felt. She told me how she felt. Things didn’t work out but i meant what i said about how i felt even though i met her online. Honestly though you never know.
There’s a one in 13 million chance you might win the lottery if you buy a ticket …
so is it “possible” that some random person sends you a message and has noble an honorable intent … sure … technically … just like you technically will win the lottery
but realistically … no
Until they prove otherwise – it’s a safe rule of thumb to assume the average guy wants to get laid … period
truth dawg
I don’t think so….Most guys don’t think with the head on their shoulders but rather with the one in their pants…. I agree with Dawg….most guys are only out for one thing….and its not a date