No one can love you unless you love yourself because if you don’t respect yourself you’ll just try and give everyone the version of yourself you think they want. It’s not healthy and it will never work because people aren’t attracted to people-pleasers, they’re attracted to individuals. Sorry if that’s harsh but the truth sometimes in and idk if it’s better you go your whole life trying to please random guys by being anything they need you to or if it’s better you hear this now, whether that means you rise to the occasion or not stands to be seen. I hope you rise to the occasion for all of us who could not.