this is the first time i can remember.. since about 16 years old (im 30 now) that I’ve felt this kind of negativity and depression..
i remember all those years back I used to feel so hurt and depressed and sad.. and I was always really quiet and insecure..
its all because I had all these negative thoughts.. like insecurity.. just telling myself i’m no good i’m no good like every second of the day..
life’s been quite shit lately and it’s all beginning again and I can see the core of my problem..
i am in a f*cking rut.. unemployed.. just broke up with my gf.. and im in a depression and i can’t seem to get myself out of it.. FUCKKKKKKKKKK
negative thinking.. it all starts from there
for all you teenybopper hopeless annoying american children writing on this fucking website.. think about that.. change your negative mindsets at an early age so you won’t have to suffer when you’re older..
and stop crying about how your dad never picked you up from school or whatever.. americans are the worst sometimes i swear
97 comments
Why are you assuming it’s only Americans who whine? And “children”?
I was going to ask the same question. @noonoo12
from reading most of the posts on here.. none of them sound british
Maybe if you weren’t so arrogant to assume your problems are worse or more important than some body elses then your life wouldn’t be so bad.
Surely a starving Nigerian child or a slaughtered homosexual in the middle east would say the same thing to you.
You sir, are a presumptuous, pretentious, conceited, supercilious human being.
im sorry just ignore me im not doing so good..
alright alright whatever im sorry.. just not doing so well
but i think what i said rings true.. theres a lot of kids who post on this website..
just give it a thought.. change ur negative mindsets early before life gets really hard
yeah that’s how everyone feels on this website isnt it? if all the ppl writing on this site could feel that a starving nigerian child is doing much worse so i shouldn’t feel so bad and automatically feel alright then this site wouldn’t exist in the first place would it David?
Life could be “really hard” for the kids here. They could come from bad homes. Could have been abused. It would be difficult to have a positive mindset in that situation. The difference is that an adult will find it easier to get out of that situation. A kid can’t do that.
First of all, you come off extremely narrow minded and ignorant, way to stay classy.
You have no right to assume anything about anybody. Not only are you singling out and targeting a specific group of people, you’re invalidating their reasons and mindset, they’re perfectly logical from a subjective standpoint.
Yes, you may be in a much tougher position circumstantially, but that doesn’t make your pain any more valid than theirs. I can feel the frustration in your words, but don’t take it out on other people, that’s just rude and immature.
Mindsets can’t be changed by flipping a switch, it requires time and thoughtful exploration and examination of the problems which have influenced your mindset into the one you have now. I understand what you’re trying to say, but please, don’t be an infantile piece of shit that attempts to hurt others as a reciprocal for your own loss. Grow the fuck up.
Don’t you think if we could change our mindset, we wouldn’t be on this site? If only I had known it was that simple and drastic.
and no one ever fucking assumes their problems are worse than everyone elses.. they just feel it to be.. that’s why people kill themselves.. if they could feel that hey someone out there is doing worse than i am.. then i wouldn’t need to reach for the gun
they just feel bad and that’s just the way it fucking is.. fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck..
That’s not the argument I was making. I was taking the argument you were making to the logical progression it was leading to.
If yours is worse than theirs, then what about the people whose problems are worse than yours? And the those who problems are worse than theirs etc.
You have contradicted yourself by criticising people’s right to post whatever has led them to feeling the way they feel on this website.
You have illustrated my point perfectly in your reply.
I’m saying at an earlier age.. like when you know you’re depressive at 16.. it gets much harder to change negative thinking when you’ve grown into it as you grow older
ok whatever david why don’t you go to youtube instead
@helloiamdepressive
I agree to the comment above your last. (I don’t know from experience, but I’m guessing so)
Relax and smoke a joint man… and maybe stay away from the computer for a while. You’re only going to get more frustrated.
I’m not saying that shit out of disrespect it’s just advice I’m trying to give out because here I am and I’ve lived with this shit for so long..
so a bit of advice to those who are younger.. and realize they have depressive tendencies.. try to change it now before it gets harder
and like i said im not doing too well right now so i guess im just arguing with all u assholes cuz its making me feel better
so sue me
keep on arguing
maybe kick me off this site i dont give a shit
I already have it up on another tab, thank you.
I’ll ask a question of you now. Why don’t you take your pure conjecture elsewhere and stop using it to hurt others with your words?
In stead, why not use this website for what it’s meant to be used for and write down what you’re feeling with RESPECT to what others might be feeling.
You have frustration, that’s valid.
But so do others.
Don’t use your own anger or pain or frustration to hurt others; that won’t fix whatever is truly pissing you off.
@helloiamdepressive…. I agree that there are a lot of children and teenagers who post on the site and sometimes their problems seem insignificant and ridiculous but remember we are only on the outside looking in…..No matter how you see it….you don’t live it….so you can never know what each individual experiences….like david said a Nigerian child might think your problems were insignificant compared to theirs …..that’s why you don’t compare problems because there’s always someone worse off than you….as much as I hate cliches….the thing to remember about that is that no matter what problems people have rather they are worse or not…..it still doesn’t affect your situation what so ever…. so does it matter? nope….. If one guy has a more fucked up life than mine…does it benefit or hurt me in ANY way that his is more fucked up than mine? nope….not at all….. If another guy has a better life than mine with a few problems….. does it hurt me or benefit me in ANY way that his life is better than mine? nope not at all….
I also agree about the negative mindset thing but mindsets don’t change your problem….they only change how you react to the problem…. but sometimes the problem is so complex and big that it doesn’t matter how you approach it positive or negative….the problem remains…
I just think when you consider OPP (other peoples problems) just have understanding and if you can… empathy… because individual problems are unique to the person….how I see things may not be how you see things…..
weed makes me feel worse
i get all spacey and shit for the next month
im bipolar
my brain chemistry is fucked
god fucking dammit
why does life have to be so fucking hard
I’m going back to melting coins into nasty piles of glurp. Because that makes more sense than reading some of the dross that gets posted to this site.
ok you can’t sympathize with ppls negative mindsets thats ridiculous
the very reason why ppl get depressed is because they have the wrong way of seeing their problems and life
i agree some situations are really shite.. and they are very real.. but don’t defend negative thinking, attitude and mindsets
what would Mandela think?
haha
yes we should all be like Mandela
I’ve known plenty of teens who’ve committed suicide. One girl because her boyfriend died in a car accident, another boy because he was gay. I think when a teen comes here its our job to try and help. Just saying “change your mindset” isn’t helping. I think you feel as bad as i do and I’m not mad at your post, I’m just saying, you said you just broke up with your girlfriend? I havent had a girl in the 2000’s or a job. Just sitting here trying to stay alive and this site helps but it can only do so much.
this site is a double edged sword when i feel shitty i also write on this fucking thing i don’t know if thats a good thing or a bad thing
fuck you SadSteve it isn’t helping but it could help a lot
for ppl who are depressive and don’t know why like I was when I was 16
you never had a job or a gf? put it into context how old are you mate? i’m 30..
all my friends are married, have kids.. and here I am bitching about my life on some stupid fucking website
this is about as close as I’ll get to gunning people in a cinema dressed as batman
What’s the problem?
Well, you see, American culture actually has its own unique set of issues, based around the fact that families are no longer families, and culture is a homogenized mess of hemorrhaging media stupidity. Who raises kids these days? The almighty television. I feel jealous of people living in third world countries because they still have family and culture unpolluted by this bullshit.
@Iorax
I agree with you.. i lived there for a while.. i understand why that guy shot all those ppl in the cinema dressed as batman..
he probably just wanted his parents to watch or something
ok enough is enough
im going to sleep
bye
@helloiamdepressive
Dude….yes you can sympathize with peoples negative mindsets….what do you think hopeless slaves and jews did when they were being oppressed? you think they said “oh you’re not positive about your situation so I don’t feel sorry for you”?
No the reasons people get depressed are numerous and cannot be downsized into “because they have the wrong way of seeing their problems and life” thats asinine and insulting to people with depression dude….
Defending negative attitudes isn’t the point….people don’t have negative situations and circumstances because of negative thinking its the opposite dude….they have negative thinking because of negative situations….
ok one more
@PainNlife mate I grew up in a good family, i had friends, and i had great luck with women
but still i was depressive and have negative thinking
I had a super kind, attentive, beautiful, hot and loving girlfriend but we broke up BECAUSE of my negative thinking.. (?!?!)
sometimes ppl who suffer from this shit.. its just the way it is.. and its REALLLLY HARRDD to change
I don’t even bother cuz I got so many other things that are stressing me out in my life thats how annoying it is to change one’s automatic negative mindsets
depression and depressive tendencies is a mental illness.. its an actual illness.. you’re brain is not wired so well etc..
yes some people deal with a lot of negative situations but i have a lot of friends who have negative situations but still strive and actually flourish because it was their drive to be better
I wish I was like that but maybe I’m too spoiled I don’t FUCKING KNOW but it’s shit and it’s not easy
@hello….i know you’re getting a lot of hate for this post…as i read it, i was quite offended…just because you aimed specifically for americans BUT after reading the comments i know you’re just extrmeely frustrated..and if there is anything i can relate to you ….it’s the anger….if i could, i’d help u in any way possible
thanks kimmm
prayer could help haha
it takes 2 seconds
just kidding
LIFES HARD
fuck
sometimes life gets really real
i cant imagine what it was like for that guy in that movie “pursuit of happiness”
does that sound stupid? i mean sometimes we ***** and moan and its like yeah lifes hard
but when shit gets real.. its like wow.. this shit is REAL
i dunno what im talking about
calm down and relax, you’re probably gonna slap me for saying that. eveyrone gets offended when they hear that line lol
but anyway, i’m here if you need to talk..
if u need a punching bag im here..
anything<3
i just wish I had realized all these things I realize now.. and go back in time and look at 16 year old or even 18 year old me and be like
hey fuck face stop moping.. just focus on your potential and abilities.. finish your godamn school stop revolving your life around your godamn depression problems and life will be fucking awesome for you
but now here i am.. at a turning point.. and its so fucking scary
its the feeling you get when you graduate from highschool or college.. but im not in highschool nor in college.. im 30 years old but i feel like im 12..
thanks for arguing with me at least i don’t feel so lonely
im gonna sleep now thanks a lot @kimmm hugs
@helloiamdepressive: I think you completely misunderstand the problem, and I’m too busy freaking out from nicotine withdrawal to continue arguing. Think I’m going to burn some houses down now instead.
dont blame yourself, a lot of us are going thru the same pain….
it’s not easy to snap out of depression…
and im sorry u feel this way..
goodnight
I was just trying to help an i get a fuck you out of it? thats cool, you know what? i’m done with this site. its time to go. i realize now more than ever that people are selfish and greedy, even our own families, death has never sounded so good
STEVE!! 🙁 talk to me
Did you know all the british kids are on a different site bitchng and moping abotu their parents and their failed relationships ranging from ages 12-25? They aren’t on here because they are somewhere else. Did you know. That kids in countries like America, and the UK, and Ireland, and Germany, ect ALL ***** ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AND PARENTS and theres a lot of them who say they’re gonna kill themselves over it.
Don’t hate on Americans, we’re terrible, but we’re not the only ones.
I am sorry that you couldn’t help your younger self. I’m still young enough to help myself before i lead a life of misery. Still though, doesn’t give you the right to ***** about unemployment and not having a girlfriend.
Remember crybaby’s are everywhere ;D
@attheend…..dont be rude :0 its okay..we all have bad breakdowns…and say things without thinking….
and glad u are aware that ur young enough to change ur life still..
u have hope
(:
^^
What site is that?
I should have specified that having a bad situation is not the only thing that causes depression….but nonetheless you can’t criticize and demean people based on how you see their problems regardless of their attitude towards their situation….Giving advice to people and trying to understand them and empathize with them is probably the most you can do….criticizing people helps in no way at all….
@Sadsteve…..don’t take things personal on this site dude…..after all we are a bunch of people contemplating suicide some of us don’t give a shit about politeness when considering the end of ones life….
@kimmm
I’m actually not being rude. I didn’t insult the author at all. Just told him not to attack americans because we’re not the only ones on here. For that matter let’s not attack any teens here posting. It’s the internet, they can post how they feel even if we think it’s dumb. For the record your post about the traffic ticket would fall under his category of dumb American posts~ Just fyi. ya know.
Kim a person can say or do something without thinking it through but it doesn’t make it right. You can forgive but it does not make it right. There is no justification.
@noonoo12
A magical land far far away in my closet behind the ramen.
yeah i know what you’re saying..
i guess i just feel bad..
because i know how angry people can get when the depression gets to them…
but im sure he didnt mean to hurt anyone
Is Ramen just a fancy word for instant noodles? Or is it different?
Ah well, it’s not important.
@kimmm
Whatever his intention I’m not fighting with him, just giving him my opinion on the narrow thought process exemplified by the post above~
When depression hits someone they do a lot. Oh well we can’t change it but anyway done with his post, trying to hard to explain that im not mad and getting called mad, the best word to describe this “Wowie. â•®(“╯_â•°)â•” as gaara would say c:
lmao 😀
@Noonoo12
DON’T INSULT THE NOODLES THEY ARE IMPORTANT. It’s like…it would be as if i threw a bowl of Udon noodles away….it’s BLASPHEMY! DEUS LE VOLT!
But ramen and instant noodles are in fact the same thing c:
They are characterized by the thin noodles and seasoning packet included or by the distinctive cup or bowl shape. I honestly prefer udon noodles which are thicker and remind my mother of small snakes which makes her squirm when i eat them. BUAHAHA
I’ve never had Ubon noodles. I was more on about… Pot Noodle. It might be the same thing, I don’t know. Noodle is noodle. Pot Noodle, noodle is thick compared to instant noodles from Asda.
I have had a LOT of instant noodles now that I think about it, never bothered to learn what they were called. I call them based on what colour the packaging is mainly. Tonight’s is Pot Noodle – Chicken and Mushroom.
The best flavors of ramen noodles are….chicken……. and………. shrimp….. worst flavors…..ummm pork….and regular….too salty
The BEST. IS. Picante Chicken. Nothing else even comes close.
Never tried that flavor…..googled it though….spicy chicken seems tasty….I’ll throw a few cayenne peppers in the regular chicken and try to emulate it
How can you have a favourite flavour instant noodle/ramen?
They all taste a bit shit really. Maybe I’m not eating the right ones.
all i see is NOODLES in my news feed shit lmao
u guys are too funny…
@noonoo12
O_o!? ……..
You must no be cooking them right!!! a little butter and hot sauce and ……its the best cheap food around
@kimmm ……. The term “newsfeed” is only usable when on FB…. I hate FB and find any reference to it on this site highly offensive and punishable by death!
….. of your account! ..
…naw JK 🙂
@everyone
noodles rock. Chicken is a decent flavor c: They honestly all suck compared ot home cooked with personal seasoning :L
I’ve tried everything. I think I’ve ate more than one should in a lifetime. Maybe that’s it.
Time to obsessively eat pasta instead.
When’sa your Dolmio day?
im sorry!! i didnt know how else to describe it lmao
@ATE…..do you mean from scratch? cause technically all noodles are “home cooked”….
and you can’t insult the greatness of chicken flavor with a mediocre label like “decent”….they are a bit above that …. on a scale from 1-10 chicken flavor has to be 8+
@noonoo12 dolmio day O_o!? ….dudes don’t have those ….
Udon noodles are great. I haven’t had them for ages but when I was in university, I survived on those, stir-fries, pizza, and Indian food. There were all these great little Asian shoppes around, too, where I’d get random snacks. I miss all those mung bean cakes and luna cakes and mango and green tea ice cream, of course…
Americans don’t have Dolmio Sauce then. You’re missing out. Well not really, but still, I could eat that shit with a spoon.
@noonoo12 honestly I didn’t know what you meant when you said “dolmio day” so I googled the phrase and it meant “period” so I assumed thats what you meant…. sorry for the confusion there
You had actual udon Persephne? The thick noodles? I love them at my sushi place back home…with some shumai, and gyoza in it <3 so yummy. I like mango rice ice cream cakes c: SO YUMMY
I want some Mongolian noodles now :c
Fucking LOLS. Excuse me while I go change my trousers. Haha.
Everything I said about it sounds so disgusting.
“I could eat that shit with a spoon”…
guys….you have succeeded in making me hungry
@noonoo12 LOL yeah I know I had to google “dolmio” alone to see what you meant. I was worried there for a sec like I know she doesn’t eat THAT
@AtTheEnd Yup. I ate them when I went out to Japanese restaurants and also prepared my own. Never tasted Mongolian noodles. I want to go out to an AYCE sushi bar now. (Gonna have to wait a few days until I have monies.)
Oh wait, yes I have eaten Mongolian noodles. Silly me.
@Persephone
Can I go? We can sit at the solo dining area next to each other and eat solitary meals while next to each other like cool kids.
Mongolian noodles are yummy with piles of meat and noodles and little corn and that crunchy potato like thing.
@PainNlife
My Strange Addiction. Ha.
Or Giovanna Plowman 2. The second coming.
Ah yiss. Popular culture references. I’m with it today. 😉
@noonoo12
those people on that show are sick….I hope its staged but ehhh you never know….
as for sickening things…..
2girls1cup takes the trophy …..if you haven’t seen it…..consider yourself lucky
@PainNlife did you finally see the girl eating her used tampon? O:
@PainNlife
See for some reason, I find Toddlers In Tiaras way more sickening than that. Weirds me out.
2 Girls 1 Cup… meh. It was overplayed so when I actually watched it, it didn’t meet my expectations. Pretty disgusting, but I applaud the actresses for being so… devoted.
@AtTheEnd Sure, feel free, I’d enjoy the company.
I never tried watching My Strange Addiction. I imagine it would give me nightmares.
^
There’s a woman who eats the ashes of her dead husband. I think it’s sweet in a way.
kinda canabalistic in my view, tho at least he was well cooked muaha
@noonoo Dear lord.
That’s what I think of whenever someone mentions “love”.
If that’s not love, then I don’t know what is.
Now seems like an appropriate time to tell people on the Internet that I used to eat red brick and get high off nail varnish.
@Duke In all honesty I’m not surprised.
And so it begins…
mabye it is love @noonoo but eventually she will shit her husband out… @Dom hey man 🙂 red brick? is that a drug or an actual brick?
No, it was real brick, but it tasted so good. I’ve been looking for it everywhere but they don’t make them like that anymore.
Yeah she might shit him out eventually, but for a while, he would’ve literally been a part of her. That’s sweet as.
All ash tastes the same, is the same. What’s the point.
I doubt she’s addicted to the taste. But no, it’s not the same. That ash was a person at one point, and she probably sees him as the person he was. I see why she does it. I think.
Helloimdepresseive
I recently read about how they don’t treat ADD with drugs in France, but instead try to resolve social challenges, but Big ****** wouldn’t like that. Instead, we have pills, toxic food, and are guinea pigs in a toxic soup. Is it any wonder why our behaviour is affected.
(That’s a long way to go for a British spelling dude.)
But at least we don’t have scary teeth.
Sorry to hear that.
im from England, not everyone on here is a moany ‘ american teenager’ whats the deal with stereotyping?
everyone has their reasons as to why they feel the way they do.. who am i to judge anyone’s situation without experiencing it.. and who are they to judge mine. we all react to things differently. everyone of us is different so stereotyping and generalizing everyone on here is stupid.
There’s enough judgmental arrogant pricks out there who think were crazy, dont add to their egotistic pathetic list.
i wrote this post while i was incredibly drunk.. depressed.. and frustrated
im sorry if i offended anyone
i didn’t mean that whole american thing.. was just a bit bitter.. but anyways..
besides that i stand by what i said that you should try to fix yourself if you are younger.. its much easier then so you don’t have to go through hell for the rest of your adult life.. and eventually will make it easier for you to find happiness when you have to take a complete hold of your own life..
im really sorry if i offended anyone.. life’s hard.. peace and love..
@helloIamdepressive ….No hard feelings dude…. I don’t think anybody here is holding any grudges….sometimes we disagree on things no big deal….we all have and are entitled to our own opinion on things….
@helloIamdepressive its alright its understandable why you said it and i’m sure you never meant any harm to anyone, guess you was just trying to help but it came off strong. honestly wish you the best in getting better if thats what you want for yourself, we all deserve happiness.