Confused

@lawliet why? do you want to talk about it? It might help….many of us here can relate….how old are you?

@joinel dude it could be my connection I dunno 🙂

@Lawliet…. I took the time to read your previous posts to get an idea of what you’re going through….I don’t know the full scope of your problems so forgive me if I got anything wrong but I’m just going by what you posted….I’m not minimizing your problems or anything so don’t take it like that but many of them will be eliminated when you become an adult….I know you said you weren’t that close to your parents….I can relate to this as I was never close with mines either ….maybe that’s a factor of why I’m here as well … I don’t really know what to recommend to get closer to them as I’m not even close with mines so I’m in the same boat as you as far as that goes….hopefully somebody on the site can give you some advice on that….

I also noticed you said you have body aches in the morning….well I don’t think that is too abnormal because you are going through puberty although I could be wrong that’s just my assumption ….if it becomes too much of a hassle then perhaps a visit to the doctor would be good for you….

Flunking school can be easily remedied if you’re willing to put the time in to fix it….don’t worry about girls right now seriously dude FUCK THEM….focus on bettering yourself and getting good grades….girls only care about 2 things ….looks and money….you can have one and not the other but if you don’t have either don’t expect to get a decent woman…. if you develop your grades and get a good job to earn some loot you’ll get some babes dude…trust me…. I know it isn’t easy but in your case it might be worth it….

Motivation comes from within….you have to keep yourself motivated….nobody else can do it for you…they can try to motivate you but its up to you to be motivated….people can encourage you and guide you but you need to depend on you for motivation…not an outside source….because if they fail to motivate you then you’ll just be unmotivated….

I also noticed you said you hated all the bad things in this world like discrimination and poverty and the rich ruling the poor and I agree… I totally agree dude….but that’s just the world we live in….sadly we can’t do anything to change it unless we had the power to and we don’t….its a sad reality but that’s just the way it is man….I hate it as well but I mean really what can we do to end global poverty and discrimination?…. you can become an advocate for equality and the end of poverty if that’s something you want to affect….in fact that could be your source of motivation….

You also said you’re bored with life….I’m sorry dude but no you aren’t….at 16 you haven’t even started “life” yet….you’re still in school and you haven’t seen what it really is like out here….not saying it’s some extravagant amazing thing but there are things you haven’t experienced yet….don’t know if you’re a virgin or not but dude if you haven’t gotten any punanny yet? (and you WILL get it!) you aren’t bored with life lol but seriously man there are many things that you can do later on that you can’t do now…..I think what you meant is that you’re bored with being a teenager….and that’s fine but realize there are things that you haven’t experienced yet so hold out…..

You said you have a few great friends so that’s awesome at least you have a few comrades in life…..hopefully they are good people and true friends….if so then you have found something that is priceless its hard to find good friends man….if they are good friends hold onto them and try to be a good friend in return as well….

I think you just need to realize what you’re experiencing right now isn’t what life is like in a nutshell….I mean I’m not guaranteeing when you become an adult you’ll feel miraculously better but who knows you might feel different from how you feel now….if you don’t then hey….suicide isn’t going anywhere dude….it is always an option but for right now it isn’t because you are just 16…..you don’t have the full view of things yet…. and from the title of this post “confused” I can tell you aren’t clear on if you even want to commit suicide….and if you aren’t clear on something then why even consider it?…..just give yourself a few years man….that’s all I’m asking dude….who knows what’ll happen you could find happiness in life or you could end up feeling worse than you do now….but be willing to roll the dice and be sure….don’t throw the dice down because you’re unsure if you’ll get a winning number….do what you can now like get good grades and stay out of trouble to put yourself in a better position later on down the line…..If not then like I said before suicide isn’t going anywhere anytime soon dude…

You can’t let them get to you though man….nobody can unmotivate you if you don’t let them….If they think they are right & perfect let them think that….not every battle has to be won…You won’t live there forever…..one day you’ll be free….if you get good grades you’ll be free within the next 2 years …you should be a 10th or 11th grader right now….but all you have to do is study and make the grades then when college time rolls around….throw them the peace sign and move into a dorm…..or if you don’t want to go to college get a job go to trade school and get your own place you don’t have to go to college if that’s not the right path for you….

Don’t expect every hand to be a helping hand even if its family….

O_o!? at 16!? …..dude you must be a lot smarter than you’re giving yourself credit for then….

where are you from?…I assumed you were in the USA

wow that’s far….yeah my bad dude I don’t know how the education system works down there but you’re definitely ahead of Americans in your age group…