Don’t let it go. Not until the crime against you has been justly paid for, and then get help for the pain – real help. My ex’s brother did the same thing to her and because she was afraid and let it go he got to her repeatedly, got to my kids and got to his own children. The crime transcends generations if the perpetrator isn’t stopped. Just because he is your brother it doesn’t mean he can get away with it, and getting him dealt with doesn’t make any of it your fault. It will be too heavy a burden to carry if it you don’t get it dealt with – I know.
I’m sorry of this sounds mean or doesn’t seem helpful but if you don’t do something about it it will happen again.
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Don’t let it go. Not until the crime against you has been justly paid for, and then get help for the pain – real help. My ex’s brother did the same thing to her and because she was afraid and let it go he got to her repeatedly, got to my kids and got to his own children. The crime transcends generations if the perpetrator isn’t stopped. Just because he is your brother it doesn’t mean he can get away with it, and getting him dealt with doesn’t make any of it your fault. It will be too heavy a burden to carry if it you don’t get it dealt with – I know.
I’m sorry of this sounds mean or doesn’t seem helpful but if you don’t do something about it it will happen again.