done with life

I think you need to ditch that guy and find a battered women’s shelter.

^and what the fuck is wrong with girls like that, who continually submit to such outrageous treatment?

So many women so easily disregard me, based on what they perceive and/or presume… why can’t you all just apply that to those abusive jerks?

Is it that you prefer tolerating the abuse, in exchange for the benefits you receive?

And if you think it’s a fair or acceptable cost, in order to continue accessing those benefits… then why complain?

Either ditch the guy, or accept the consequences of your choice to stay. It’s that simple. This is one of those things you can actually change, if it’s bad enough that you really want to.

it’s okay to be afraid; fear is a natural thing. But the way you deal with fear is to confront it, instead of letting it control you.

If someone is hurting you, then it is your duty to yourself (and your offspring), to do whatever it takes to stop that person from hurting you further. You can try reasoning with people, and it’s usually the best first choice… but when someone won’t listen to reason, then you are no longer obligated to respect their humanity, and if they continue harming you, you are fully justified in doing anything in your power, to force them to cease. If you have to gouge eyes and kick balls, bite, run and scream… then do it. But if it comes to that, you’ll probably have to kill him, to make sure he doesn’t heal up and come back for revenge later.

First things first, get to safety, call the police, file a report, request to have him taken into custody, request a restraining order, and tell everyone you know about him and his abusive antics, so that they all know to look out for him, so they can help protect you.