this is true: but i’m not so evolved that i can simply let my ego not effect me, especially since the reason she left me was almost exclusively my fault (although not in any of the ways most people think, ie infidelity, abuse, etc; obviously, since it’s personal, and it involves another person, i can’t go into the particulars)
Happens more than you think. i didn’t get to be married but deeply loved a girl (part of me thinks she was “the one”, we were together for several years) and lost her due to circumstances and mostly my fault (not infidelity or abuse either… maybe neglect in part, but that also had it’s reasons).
I’m in the same boat of “wishing her to be happy”, but it hurts like hell knowing she is with someone else (in my case i already know she is)… just try to see this like a regular day (which it is)… and you don’t know, maybe she’s wishing you could be happy too.
@Duderino: Well said. It’s easy to advise people to be happy for those they love who’ve abandoned them. It’s quite another thing to feel that way when confronting this situation.
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hope that he/she is happy
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this is true: but i’m not so evolved that i can simply let my ego not effect me, especially since the reason she left me was almost exclusively my fault (although not in any of the ways most people think, ie infidelity, abuse, etc; obviously, since it’s personal, and it involves another person, i can’t go into the particulars)
yeah i can understand that it would just be what i’d do having no experience with any kind of relationship whatsoever
Happens more than you think. i didn’t get to be married but deeply loved a girl (part of me thinks she was “the one”, we were together for several years) and lost her due to circumstances and mostly my fault (not infidelity or abuse either… maybe neglect in part, but that also had it’s reasons).
I’m in the same boat of “wishing her to be happy”, but it hurts like hell knowing she is with someone else (in my case i already know she is)… just try to see this like a regular day (which it is)… and you don’t know, maybe she’s wishing you could be happy too.
@Duderino: Well said. It’s easy to advise people to be happy for those they love who’ve abandoned them. It’s quite another thing to feel that way when confronting this situation.