Sounds like you’re finally prioritizing something for your self and your own life for once. That’s awesome!
Don’t let him ruin it. Do you live together? If not, there a plenty of ways to prevent someone from getting to you. Don’t speak in that passive way claiming he’s going to prevent you from graduating. He doesn’t have the power to stop that unless you let him distract you. If you want to graduate, go do it. If he’s getting to you by phone, internet, whatever, every form of communication has privacy controls these days. If you live together, that can be messy, find other safe places to go where you can stay on track.
It’s the first time I can even remember seeing you post about something that isn’t totally about him. Caring enough to graduate is the first sign I’ve seen of you wanting something for yourself. Don’t let him take that. And don’t let yourself believe that he actually has the power to do that. For other people to control your life you first have to give them access to the controls.
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Sounds like you’re finally prioritizing something for your self and your own life for once. That’s awesome!
Don’t let him ruin it. Do you live together? If not, there a plenty of ways to prevent someone from getting to you. Don’t speak in that passive way claiming he’s going to prevent you from graduating. He doesn’t have the power to stop that unless you let him distract you. If you want to graduate, go do it. If he’s getting to you by phone, internet, whatever, every form of communication has privacy controls these days. If you live together, that can be messy, find other safe places to go where you can stay on track.
It’s the first time I can even remember seeing you post about something that isn’t totally about him. Caring enough to graduate is the first sign I’ve seen of you wanting something for yourself. Don’t let him take that. And don’t let yourself believe that he actually has the power to do that. For other people to control your life you first have to give them access to the controls.