My boyfriend is the only one who I told I’m breaking,I think he’s forgotten though.
He just keeps getting mad and upset and frustrated wih me and he tells me I’m pushing him away and I tell him things about ex’s and he struggles too forgive me but I’ve forgiven him for so much that hes done in his past.
I need his support,but he’s forgotten I need it..but I don’t know how too tell him in a polite,non attention seeking way….I need him..I’m scared of losing control..
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i hope you get some advice here,because i dont know what to do or say about it. I dont know what you did with your exs,but if you have forgiven him so much,it would be better for him to forgive you too?
Thank you..im just scared right now
Maybe its because needing support is not attention seeking. But i would fear if you told him, he would take it that way as ‘attention-seeking.’ if he is angry and frustrated and upset, maybe he will continue to be that way. Perhaps he feels like he has too much on his mind, or feels that theres too much to deal with. Perhaps he doesnt even want to talk about it… I dont know?
I dont think he would see it that way but its how i feel,i feel attention seeking and itsnot 24/7,its whne i push him away,or tell him something he doesn’t like,usually hes quite supportive,just lately hes been more harsh on me
i dont know why that is so maybe talk to him about it later and see if hes still like that
A girl can try
i dont know why that is so maybe talk to him about it later and see if hes still like that
A guy can only handle so much. He showed his support for you. But can we please find some other place to dump your bucket of stories about your ex’s? And, any other negative issues? We all have different levels of ability for absorbing other people’s problems, issues, crisis’s, etc. Clearly, the poor guy is past his limit. I respectfully disagree with the previous post. Can you please tell him that you are sorry that you’ve given TMI about past beaus and any other uglies from you present or past life. Tell him how much you respect and appreciate his support and from now on, you will dump your bucket with a therapist, this online site, a school counselor, etc. From now, it’s positive happy, happy for you two. No past BF or GF talk–positive or negative… And if either of you has a negative word to exchange, it is in the context of your own relationship here and now. Please no more negative stuff with him or he will split–if doesn’t already. If you want to save this relationship, you have to dump your bucket of shit someplace else. Respectfully.