So a few days ago my girlfriend tried to kill herself! And she said that it was to get my attention…and so today she calls me from the hospital and tells me her mother just tried to kill herself also, and she’s at risk for a heart attack!
And so it’s like ALL of this shit is my fault! All of the arguments we’ve been getting into are my fault! And her trying to kill herself is my fault and her mom, in return,trying to kill herself is my fault!
So I guess maybe on top of all the other stuff going on if I just completely eliminate myself from the whole equation maybe everyone will get better….
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Committing suicide will definitely not make this situation better. Her attempted suicide, and subsequently her mother’s attempted suicide (if what she told you was true) was not your fault. It was her own issues that led her to do that. Also, if you feel that the relationship has become toxic, maybe you should then break it up. Few things are as dangerous as two suicidal people in a relationship.
BOY this story has tons of drama!
Girlfriend wants to kill herself Mother wants to kill herself! YOU MIGHT WANT TO KILL YOURSELF!
First thing that comes to mind is you might want to eliminate yourself from the whole situation, by leaving, it’s not healthy that many people together all suicidal, if you said i’m trying to help them, that would be different, but if your idea of helping them is killing yourself, that’s not helping.
that’s a mountain not a mole hill. i’d walk before they make me run.
Good luck.
OH my fucking God. Nope Nope. this isn’t your fault. Don’t own this. As upsetting as this situation is she (and I guess her mother too) are manipulating you. Keep hashing it out here. Talk to the people on this forum who have been on both sides of this coin. I know I have. Wanted to kill myself to get revenge and saw people do the same as revenge. It isn’t rational thinking, it is a power play to keep you under her thumb.