I’ve been holding it back all day. trying not to cry and get sick. im nervous. me and my ex (the one I mentioned before) are back together, but its not the same we both agreed. its different and it’ll never go back to normal he says. I want to work everything out and fix everything but I cant. I dont know how. he’s unhappy and I cant change that. I worry so much about him its ruined my own happiness. he just wants me to be happy and I want the same for him but at the same time I dont want to give up. this hurts. I feel so sick and nauseous. I dont want to keep torturing myself and thats the last thing I want to do to him. I dont know what to do.
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Let go of the worry. You can’t fix anything if you can’t think clearly. He can’t communicate if you are eaten up with fear. Rational, adult time is the best time to work through your problems together.
You gotta communicate. Ask what is wrong. What you can do to help. I have long lasting relationships 4+ years at a time and they have all ended because od the breakdown of communication