I’ve not been on SP for a few months, but I was reading some posts yesterday, including worries about Cordless. I then reviewed some of her recent posts.
Her most recent post was May 31 (four days ago) and ended with this comment “This is a world I would like to exit.”
Based on her writing style, I think her ‘exit’ word was written in a general sense, and not specifically meaning to ‘exit’ on May 31.
The post that seems alarming is the one she titled “Panic and Peace” on May 26, where she explains encountering a guy in a parking lot and she let him use her phone.
She even wrote this “Now that I think about it, I don’t know why he couldn’t have used the phones at WalMart, or asked any of the customers in the parking lot there, but whatever. (That is kinda weird, right?)”
She writes that the guy “really did call for help” “and walked off sadly to wait for the person who was coming to get him.”
The person this guy called now has Cordless’ phone number. Also, the guy saw her at her car. The guy could have had friends nearby who picked him up. This could have been a tactic to exploit a vulnerable person. They could have spent a few days watching her habits and then even phoning her as a ruse.
Thoughts?
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Well now I am truly worried.
I have no way of contacting her aside from email, I have emailed her several times and she has not returned my email. Which in itself is not unusual, she doesn’t always answer my emails.
But her decided lack of activity here leaves me concerned and worried. She is a spectacular woman and I’d handle it poorly if something happened to her.
i’m with you! HDS Cordless i’m very sad and i miss you, we all are hoping whatever is that is bothering you, that you will work through it, and come back.
Like it or not WE ARE YOUR FRIENDS.
I hope that she is okay.
Cordless was abducted by aliens.
She’s been relocated via extra-terrestrial transport to an off-planet zoo where’s she’s been commissioned to write sonata’s to appease the the native populace, while confined to her living space.
Wi-Fi connectivity is limited in her current domestic situation.
FFS Morris, we need to get her some internet access. And some Raid or pepper spray to exterminate the damn aliens.
Yeah, who knows. I’m not sure if Raid works against aliens.
Maybe Cordless found a boyfriend/girlfriend. Let’s try to be optimistic here. Perhaps she’s absent due to overwhelming joy.
Is there anyone on SP who has her ‘real’ identity and could phone police to conduct a welfare check?
I do think her absence is uncharacteristic.
StayOrGo, Absolutely not people have a right to duck out of this site without the cops banging on their door making things worse.
Yep. It would be a beach of privacy to call police or anyone else in her area unless she said at some point, “If I go missing, you should contact such and such…”
This is just the Internet, guys. As much as it can help people, in the end you’re still alone and the people you’re communicating with are far away living their own lives.
I agree with rocketman. Please… Let’s not make a challenging situation even more challenging.
I disagree.
@StayOrGo; Who are you, a stalker? No one went crazy when Clevername disappeared, or countless other SP members. Methinks you need to find something IRL to occupy yourself with.
yes StayOrGo is a stalker! look what cheap booze and potato chips have done to you! drop that knife and bottle of acid!! turn on the Disney channel and get your mind out of the gutter. 🙂
rocketman – It was a CHAINSAW, not a knife!
Stalker – no.
Caring, compassionate, and highly intuitive – yes.
That’s cool, but leave the “being caring and compassionate” in regards to Cordless, to the people who’ve actually spoken with her in private, or who spent months joking around with her on the site, ok sweetheart?
nepheliad – unnecessary comment. please don’t tell me what to do or how to be.
It just seems suspicious for someone to pop up out of the blue and start saying that we should contact police for someone who hasn’t commented in a few days. Sorry.
Neph that is a little harsh don’t you think? We have no way to tell who is lurking here and unable to comment for various reasons.
Don’t. You. DARE.
If this site turns into something where nosy snitches start turning us into the police for observation, I am absolutely gone. Everything and everyone here needs to be respected with the utmost privacy and anonymity, no matter how disturbing it is.
Sending the police to “check” on someone because of something here? Absolutely not okay, no matter what.
Someone here did that to Ant, and the police showed up at his house, completely destroying his privacy.
There’s speculation that it led him to finish the job sooner than he otherwise would have.
If that’s what happened, the snitch had better realize that they probably played a part in his death.
This is a site for suicidal people.
Respect people’s choices.
Respect people’s privacy.
Never, ever think it is your place to call the police on someone here.
If that’s what this site is becoming, I am absolutely leaving for good.
Thank you, Rocketman, Nepheliad, and Distant.road for coming to my rescue here.
I don’t think any harm was meant but we do need to respect the rules, one of which is “if you expect someone to stop you, no one will”.
A variation of which would be “If you don’t WANT anyone to stop you, no one will.”
StayOrGo, Anything is possible, but you been watching the ID channel to much 🙂
Cordless was feeling sad and probably still is, she was upset she didn’t have anyone in her life at the moment or for the last twenty years? she was really serious and we myself included did like we always do cracked some jokes thinking it would make her feel better but i think it made her feel worse, we didn’t see how serious she was, i think like totrees she might have taken it to heart. but on the other hand i believe she will bonce back, and realize that we are her friends and forgive us.
Ummm yeah – – I’m quite obsessed with True Crime. I don’t watch TV at all, but I participate in Websleuths online. Lots of crazy criminals out there…. For Real.
Websleuths is a good distraction from Suicide Project.
I read the past week comments, including the jokes. I think Cordless is somewhat sensitive, but appears to bounce back easily and quickly. The jokes seem to go both ways between her and others.
Well that’s what i was thinking too at the time, but she did disappear poof!
Yes, she did disappear poof! Peculiar, I think.
On the latest Websleuths case I’ve been following, the ex-husband told his mother that he can make his ex-wife “poof disappear”.
Last week, after being missing one month, the ex admitted killing her and directed authorities to her dismembered remains in an acid-filled container in the woods.
Can someone please give me a link to Cordless’s posts? I hardly bookmark anything from this site because I’m really paranoid.
http://suicideproject.org/author/Cordless/
Thanks. I hate jumping to conclusions, but I’m really worried.
(And also, StayOrGo, I had no idea that you were still around/alive. Nice to see that you are.)
Thanks whiskered-fish – Yep, still alive with all the ups and downs.
StayOrGo, Oh for Pete’s Sake! Would you stop it! I think i seen that one too! 🙂 I watch ID Channel all the time, when ever my girlfriend has a knife in her hand i begin to sweat! and remind her theirs nothing to gain by killing me! she will just have to find a new place to live 🙂 So far so good.
Random thought her post are still up that’s a good sign 🙂
I’ve been really worried about Cordless too, in fact I’ve had two dreams about her, which is really strange because I don’t usually remember my dreams and rarely dream of specific people. The first one was just about her living across the street from me and her having lots of shiny blue plates. The other more ominous and that’s all I will say. I sure hope she’s ok. That last picture she posted made me think of ToTrees. I didn’t see it right away. I hope she shows up soon just to say she just needed a break. The sad reality is if no one has a real life contact to her we just will be here wondering. I don’t even know what city/town she lives in.
I’m sure all of you are overreacting… I bet she just lost internet access.
Zetsumei, yes your right, but we do miss her.
I found this comment by Cordless posted 5 weeks ago April 29 where she states “I feel warm and fuzzy when you all assure me that you care”
http://suicideproject.org/2016/04/opposite-wishes/
yeah that’s a good one because i wasn’t in it!! ugh!!