I was obsessed with physical appereance some time ago, but after a while I just stop caring. I accepted my ugly appereance and now I’m a bit happier. My ugliness does not bother me, but my loneliness does.
I have this obsession about my nose being too big. Every time I look in the mirror it bothers the hell out of me. I’m not sure if I have BDD or not… it does seem like hell though
Ya like Martin I used to obsess as well. I have an usual look, to some I could be attractive to others not. I look better when I’m shape, but I realized I had more important things to worry about in my life than my looks. So I set that aside and focused on other things like my education/career. I’m out of shape now, but once I’m doing better financially I’ll be hitting the gym again.
Nowadays (if you’re a guy) girls are not as picky about looks as they used to be. It seems to be career. I have some ugly friends who are educated but have dated beautiful girls. I’ve also seen average/even fat girls dating goodlooking guys.
But above all success and personality matter the most. Someone who takes care of themselves well has a healthy, balanced personality is more attractive than a dorky, poor, uneducated pretty body-I know some guys like that. Sometimes those Disney songs are true, believe in yourself and things will work out right.
Like it or not , everyone has a little , or more , of this disorder . In my case , i’m skinny , weak and ugly , and i hate it . But i also was born with Paraplegia ( paralysis of lower limbs ) and it hurts like hell , every second of my life , and it makes me look like a freak . What i’m trying to say , it’s that you can change how you look , but some of us can’t fix shit .
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I was obsessed with physical appereance some time ago, but after a while I just stop caring. I accepted my ugly appereance and now I’m a bit happier. My ugliness does not bother me, but my loneliness does.
At the moment I’m terribly disturbed by both.
I have this obsession about my nose being too big. Every time I look in the mirror it bothers the hell out of me. I’m not sure if I have BDD or not… it does seem like hell though
Ya like Martin I used to obsess as well. I have an usual look, to some I could be attractive to others not. I look better when I’m shape, but I realized I had more important things to worry about in my life than my looks. So I set that aside and focused on other things like my education/career. I’m out of shape now, but once I’m doing better financially I’ll be hitting the gym again.
Nowadays (if you’re a guy) girls are not as picky about looks as they used to be. It seems to be career. I have some ugly friends who are educated but have dated beautiful girls. I’ve also seen average/even fat girls dating goodlooking guys.
But above all success and personality matter the most. Someone who takes care of themselves well has a healthy, balanced personality is more attractive than a dorky, poor, uneducated pretty body-I know some guys like that. Sometimes those Disney songs are true, believe in yourself and things will work out right.
typo-unusual
Like it or not , everyone has a little , or more , of this disorder . In my case , i’m skinny , weak and ugly , and i hate it . But i also was born with Paraplegia ( paralysis of lower limbs ) and it hurts like hell , every second of my life , and it makes me look like a freak . What i’m trying to say , it’s that you can change how you look , but some of us can’t fix shit .