If I knew a better way to write this or if I just had a better reason, I really wish I did, but I don’t. I’m not good at writing these things. He was.
I am sorry to inform you that my husband left us almost two weeks ago.
I don’t know how these messages work here or what your policy is so I won’t say more, only that these are really hard times for us.
He always helped people and it looks like he may have done the same here for some, and I found some messages that he may have been planning to use here so if anyone wants them, ask and I will try to send or post them here.
We are still sorting a lot ourselves here, so I apologize if you don’t get replies quickly from his email or other accounts he had.
Please know that he Loved life and he really really did care dearly for so many of you just like he did for us.
Thank you.
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Sorry for your loss. RIP.
May lord give you the strength to handle all this.
Please Take Care of Yourself.
I am so sorry for your loss. <3
Sorry for your loss. He was a good guy, will remember him that way.
I will miss him and the chat we used to have 🙁
Oh, wow. If this is true, then I’m really floored. He’s the last person I would’ve expected…
I’m really sorry. I hope you all will be alright.
It doesn’t sound like he killed himself whiskered. It sounds like he just died, like everyone in this word. One day our body gives out or something happens to us. It isn’t always by our own hand.
Huh, I didn’t even consider that. You have a point. Either way, it’s heartbreaking news.
I’m so sorry that he left us. He was such a kind soul an helped a lot of people here. Thank you for sharing this with us.
For some reason I also don’t believe this is true, if it is I am sorry for your loss and hope he is in a better place.
I’m with you all the way on this, jidccc. That was my first gut reaction. It just doesn’t ring true that a family member who’s in total grief then sets about visiting all the old haunts of their now deceased loved one after a week or two to say “Hey everyone, just to let you know…” I call BS on 99% of these. We had one recently with a username ‘ skitz_kitty’ with a picture posted of the now ‘deceased’ by a family member or friend the day after he/she was supposed to have done the deed. It’s an insult to our intelligence and to what many of us are genuinely going through.
Apologies if this is one those RARE occasions it’s genuine.
gee that’s a horrible thing!!! i’m upset! there is nothing i can say to make anything better, he was a good guy, unfortunately some of us do give in it’s not our fault we just can’t stand it anymore, i’m sorry he’s gone, thanks for letting us know, his name say’s it all here4uok that’s a good handle, were here4uok too! if you need to talk to us.
welp that is a bit surprising…. He’s not one of the people from here that I sort of mentally prepared for dying anytime soon…. Meh he was a pre decent person, he did seem to actually want to help…. That’s rare for people….
I am so sorry for your loss!! He was such a positive and helpful, person!! I feel really sad now!
My condolences. I was wondering what had happened to him. He was a loving and caring individual. He will absolutely be missed. 🙁
THANK YOU ALL for your kind words I have been receiving many messages and almost all of them are beautiful.. and I didn’t realize we left an important detail out and I have to clarify: my husband DID NOT TAKE HIS LIFE. so please dont feel agitated or anything like that.. he would have wanted exactly the opposite. His uncle is helping me sort his affairs because he left a few things pending. We were fortunate to have a few days to prepare for his departure and to those people crying wolf here, I HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN AND FOLLOWED MY HUSBAND’S VOLUNTEER WORK AND ALSO MET SOME OF YOU HE HELPED.. it is very hard for us, but he leaves such a wonderful legacy of positivism and looking at life through bright eyes that I am doing the best I can to honor him this way. please be patient because I cant reply to everybody here and the other places he posted and colaborated on. PLEASE help us help him one more time on his quest to help others by celebrating his LIFE through a day of thinking positive, of seeing the good in life and other people especially YOU.. again thank you for your kind words and GOD BLESS YOU ALL