I just like to think is a unique way to express about ourself. Not very common but seems normal to us. just like when most people think life is wonderful when I thought the total opposite.
I’m talking about the things I’ve seen.
And I will tell you that I’ve never seen someone who has been happy for 50+ years
My grandparents have been together since they were 16, and look happy.
They had 3 kids.
1 did suicide.
The other (my dad), doesn’t talk to them anymore.
The 3rd child still visits once in a while.
My mom also doesn’t have the best life, but there still were periods where she was happy.
My dad doesn’t look all that happy anymore either.
My life sucks.
My granddad (my mom’s father) had alzheimer, and that hurted our whole familie, especially my grandmother (my mom’s mother)
The other people I know don’t look like they have always been happy either.
I don’t mean to offend/attack you.
So my apologies if I’m being mean/disrespectful towards you.
Cuz that wasn’t my intention 🙂
There are plenty of people who are happy, for most if not all of their lives. That’s why SP people are “fringe” people. I am not going to argue with you. You are young and only have a small frame of reference.
And being happy doesn’t mean being blissfully happy every single day and for every single moment of your life. Happy people also go through breakups and times where they are sad.
I have met a lot of people who are elderly who have been very happy with their lives. Most humans aren’t depressed and suicidal.
I guess that I’m at fault for not really explaining what I meant.
I see these break ups and these times were you’re sad as being unhappy, even if it’s only for a few day, weeks or maybe even a couple months.
That’s why I said that their lives aren’t full of hapiness, because they will have moments where they’re sad.
But yeah, they aren’t like the people on SP.
They aren’t suicidal and/or are depressed.
So my apologies for being a bit unfriendly.
I hope that I didn’t offend you too much and that yo can forgive me >.<
I really want a kid when I’m older..
But I don’t think I’ll ever get one though >.<
No one has even had a crush on me so far. Maybe I'll just stay a virgin for life! :3
having kids aren’t all it’s cracked up to be. sleepless nights, constantly having to take care of ’em, your whole life revolves around these little people, they grow up, talk back to you, are ungrateful, and spend your hard earned money. You’re still in school, so you’ve no idea yet. Just endless work.
It’s true that I don’t know how it feels to be a parent, but I still want a kid.
I have nothing better to do anyways.
I don’t have much friends, no girlfriend, I don’t really have a family,..
So I’ll most likey spend all my time on the internet, bed,.. anyways.
Having a kid could change that.
Yes, they talk back, but adults do that too, you know.
I don’t know what to do with my money anyways.
Not all children are ungrateful.
It depends on the way you raise them.
Just make them realise at an early age that money doesn’t grow on trees, and that they should be kind to everyone.
Yeah you are right. Well I think a lot of it has to do with upbringing and the circumstances of a persons young life.. as a child and growing up.
Some people have good parents and their parents love them and provide for them and teach them how to get along with people in life. and they help their kids how to grow into good people and how to grow into a productive person in life who respects others and is a good person in life and can find happiness through positive ways.
then there are others like me. I was abused my whole childhood, taught to hate everybody, neglected, hated, put down, > every time I tried to do something positive with myself they discouraged me and then pushed me into bad things like alcohol, drugs, and other bad stuff.
So I did not have a chance in life to become a good person who is allowed to enjoy positive things in life
and because of that > my life has SUCKED. My life has been nothing but pain and trauma and it gets so bad at times I have just longed for it all to be over with > so the pain of it all would stop.
so yeah, some people love life and have had it good and they desire to live for a long time. Others have had it hard and have had nothing but pain, trauma and social anxiety and other issues in life like financial hardships and medical problems and people in situations like that > can get to a place where they just want all the pain to stop and do not want to live anymore
Life is not fair to everybody
and well some people do have a life that is so hard and so painful that
wanting it all to end is inevitable
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I just like to think is a unique way to express about ourself. Not very common but seems normal to us. just like when most people think life is wonderful when I thought the total opposite.
I don’t understand how some people wish to live forever..
It’s weird.
I mean, isn’t living for around 80 years already long enough/too long?
Well, I guess if you have a happy life, you don’t want to die…
True, but will that hapiness really last for 50+ years?
I don’t believe it will.
If it does, than you’re really lucky in my opinion.
There are people who are happy for 50+ years. They just aren’t us.
Mhh, I’m sure that there are people who have been happy for 50+ years.
But I don’t think that these 50+ years will be full of hapiness though.
that…doesn’t make any sense. unless you’re talking about yourself.
I’m talking about the things I’ve seen.
And I will tell you that I’ve never seen someone who has been happy for 50+ years
My grandparents have been together since they were 16, and look happy.
They had 3 kids.
1 did suicide.
The other (my dad), doesn’t talk to them anymore.
The 3rd child still visits once in a while.
My mom also doesn’t have the best life, but there still were periods where she was happy.
My dad doesn’t look all that happy anymore either.
My life sucks.
My granddad (my mom’s father) had alzheimer, and that hurted our whole familie, especially my grandmother (my mom’s mother)
The other people I know don’t look like they have always been happy either.
I don’t mean to offend/attack you.
So my apologies if I’m being mean/disrespectful towards you.
Cuz that wasn’t my intention 🙂
There are plenty of people who are happy, for most if not all of their lives. That’s why SP people are “fringe” people. I am not going to argue with you. You are young and only have a small frame of reference.
And being happy doesn’t mean being blissfully happy every single day and for every single moment of your life. Happy people also go through breakups and times where they are sad.
I have met a lot of people who are elderly who have been very happy with their lives. Most humans aren’t depressed and suicidal.
I guess that I’m at fault for not really explaining what I meant.
I see these break ups and these times were you’re sad as being unhappy, even if it’s only for a few day, weeks or maybe even a couple months.
That’s why I said that their lives aren’t full of hapiness, because they will have moments where they’re sad.
But yeah, they aren’t like the people on SP.
They aren’t suicidal and/or are depressed.
So my apologies for being a bit unfriendly.
I hope that I didn’t offend you too much and that yo can forgive me >.<
well…okay, you’re forgiven, but you need to send me some gourmet chocolates!! 😛
Mhhh
Are you sure that you want a stranger sending you some food?
I might poison it, you know. :p
Well, this IS a suicide site after all. Will it do the job? I want fast-acting, instant painless death (or as painless as it can be).
We’ll call it…Death Chocolate.
I don’t know that much about poisoning, sorry 🙁
But Death Chocolate sounds great!
Someone should create this type of chocolate.
And people who are 80 want to see their grandkids grow up and stuff
But we SPers are likely to not even have children, let alone grandchildren (i know some ppl here do have kids, just saying a lot of us on here don’t)
I really want a kid when I’m older..
But I don’t think I’ll ever get one though >.<
No one has even had a crush on me so far. Maybe I'll just stay a virgin for life! :3
having kids aren’t all it’s cracked up to be. sleepless nights, constantly having to take care of ’em, your whole life revolves around these little people, they grow up, talk back to you, are ungrateful, and spend your hard earned money. You’re still in school, so you’ve no idea yet. Just endless work.
It’s true that I don’t know how it feels to be a parent, but I still want a kid.
I have nothing better to do anyways.
I don’t have much friends, no girlfriend, I don’t really have a family,..
So I’ll most likey spend all my time on the internet, bed,.. anyways.
Having a kid could change that.
Yes, they talk back, but adults do that too, you know.
I don’t know what to do with my money anyways.
Not all children are ungrateful.
It depends on the way you raise them.
Just make them realise at an early age that money doesn’t grow on trees, and that they should be kind to everyone.
Yeah I read an article that scientists are looking for a way to prolong human life. And here I am not wanting to see tomorrow.
Well, if life were a movie, I suppose those that want to die could simply give up their years and give them to those who want to live.
Yeah you are right. Well I think a lot of it has to do with upbringing and the circumstances of a persons young life.. as a child and growing up.
Some people have good parents and their parents love them and provide for them and teach them how to get along with people in life. and they help their kids how to grow into good people and how to grow into a productive person in life who respects others and is a good person in life and can find happiness through positive ways.
then there are others like me. I was abused my whole childhood, taught to hate everybody, neglected, hated, put down, > every time I tried to do something positive with myself they discouraged me and then pushed me into bad things like alcohol, drugs, and other bad stuff.
So I did not have a chance in life to become a good person who is allowed to enjoy positive things in life
and because of that > my life has SUCKED. My life has been nothing but pain and trauma and it gets so bad at times I have just longed for it all to be over with > so the pain of it all would stop.
so yeah, some people love life and have had it good and they desire to live for a long time. Others have had it hard and have had nothing but pain, trauma and social anxiety and other issues in life like financial hardships and medical problems and people in situations like that > can get to a place where they just want all the pain to stop and do not want to live anymore
Life is not fair to everybody
and well some people do have a life that is so hard and so painful that
wanting it all to end is inevitable
I know. I never asked for life to be handed to me or for everything to go my way. All I’ve ever wanted was a fair shake in life, which I never got.