Well, the rule is pretty people hook up with pretty people. Sometimes, however, I see gorgeous women with not so pretty men. But, I never saw hot guys with ulgy women. No matter how smart and kind you are, being a ulgy woman means you will end up alone.
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Not so pretty men become much more attractive when they have lots of money.
Ask Hugh Hefner; he’s in his 80’s and he’s never dated a center-fold quality woman older than 26. You think he pulls babes based on his personality?
Ahhh, this old conundrum lol
Without meaning too sound too crass, i guarentee you that there will be some guy who will sleep with the most aesthetically challenged humans out there.
Do you think the reverse is true or false?
Not hating on anyone, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
There is something to this. Speaking from plenty of dating experience, if you’re a girl, your choices are better if you are more in shape. Guess it depends on the type of guy you’re trying to attract…I think chances are better when you’re not very overweight. Guys will fuck an overweight girl, but see if they take you out and introduce you to family and friends, just saying…Then again, I’m usually attracted to the opposite race and my state is really segregated so dating is harder for me in general. Another reason I’m not dating right now, don’t want to be thrown into racial tension. Been there, done that. Had racial slurs thrown at me and the works. So over it.
Where abouts in the world are you mate?
I can only speak from what i have seen in my country and that it is pretty relaxed when it comes to dating someone of another race.
From what i have read, depending on where you are in the world can make a difference betwwen life and death.
It’s fucked up isn’t it?
Eh, I’ll just say North America. An area that’s republican state. More segregated than the South it seems.
This is one thing as a brit i don’t understand.
Why does your political affiliation effect someone else’s dating life?
Whale hunters are a subset who enjoy harpooning well fed females. This breed of hunter exists.
Eh, who cares. If you’re a guy you need lots of money to attract the best possible mate.
If you’re a female, you’d better be in the top 10% if you want a great provider. That’s how nature works.
“Whale hunters” haha shut up. I know how this works and get a guy mad at you and he’ll reallly tell you how “fat” you are. Guys are bastards…mostly. I’m trying not to hate them all.
There’s no law against being heavy, well-fed or unattractive.
It’s ok.
Guys are attracted to attractive people, and the same is true for women. The heart wants what the heart wants.
Well fed, why do these two words sound sexy. Makes me think of a man who enjoys feeding his woman until she’s as big as a house. God, I’m a sick freak!
Idiot
Yes, a lot of women date ugly guys for money. But my point is some women are willing to marry with a ugly guy if he is smart, kind, affectionate, honest. But men reject the ugly ones. They laugh at them. That is sad.
Can’t call these people ‘men’
They are children if they would laugh at someone because of the way they look. Because that’s what kids do to other people to try and conform to the other kids.
An adult doing that? They never grew up, or they are bullys or bastards.
Men and women are different, each gender has different motivational propellers.
That’s perfectly ok.
Guys want a hawt chick, broads want a solid provider who’s also protective.
There’s probably an evolutionary explanation for this phenomenon, feel free to Google it.
I’m into rockstar looking dudes and some hipster looking dudes so I already know that I have to work out before I try to get dates with certain people. That’s just the way it is, ya’ know. I agree with you.
That’s kewel.
If you look good enough to pose naked online and you get hundreds of thousands of hits after modelling, maybe you’ll snatch that 1% of the male population you’re after.
Good luck, I wish you the best.
(If you’re under 18 kindly disregard this comment).
@Mo. LOL. Smh. I see you’ve re-set to your default position.
It’s sad that I have to explain this.
After thousands of years you broads still haven’t figured this out?
*SMH*
No wonder society is in such a state of disarray.
How you degrade your sex, Mo. This is why you make such a delicious toy.
Brutal honesty is, well, brutal.
The truth can be painful.
Why sugar-coat what everyone with a brain already knows?
It’s annoying when people ask questions I think they already know the answer to.
Thank goodness! For a moment I thought I’d offended your higher sensibilities. While I indeed agree with you regarding a certain percentage of the population, I find it rather arrogant of you to speak for the entire male (and female) populace.
In fact, I have often thought that although beauty is the ideal, that most people are deeper than that, preferring a more meaningful connection, assuming they have depth themselves.
You’re deeper than you let on, Morris. Ouch. The truth can be painful.
Playing poker?
Thanks.
I’m heading to the nearest convenience store to get a hot dog because I’m hungry.
You’re right. I’m a terribly deep individual.
Enjoy the dog, dawg.
He’s a pisser, isn’t he? I haven’t had any problems getting the type of guys I want, I just know what I have to do. That’s all.
Had a Bahama Mama, that’s a big ole hotdog. It’s spicy and delicious.
I got another six-pack of beer, and now I’m pondering life’s deep complexities.
Just another typical Sunday afternoon.
Sorry Mo, didn’t realize you were back. So you want to discuss your hot dog. “Bahama Mama” you say? Fascinating.
Pondering or blurring or escaping?
Hmm. Spicy and delicious. You don’t say.
So do I call you Mo or Ma?
This isn’t really a hot-dog review site.
Despite my desire to critique junk food, I don’t feel that doing so is appropriate on a site populated by individuals who possess suicidal tendencies.
The Bahama Mama is awesome, live long and prosper.
Sorry, I was writing. I forgot about you for a moment.
I GOT THE LIVE LONG AND PROSPER!!!!
YES!!
I thought it would never come!
Love you man, you’re awesome.
Take two di-gel and happy trails! LOL!
Some guy on this thread who goes by the username of “Morris” has got it all wrong. Ladies, don’t pay attention to him. Wanting hundreds of people to see you naked is a sign of low self-esteem.
A person with a healthy sense of self-worth will recognize that first they need to find themselves sexy, and do what they can to take care of their body and health, and then if they want a romantic p.artner, all they need is ONE other person to also think they’re sexy and to forge a real connection and bond with that individual, based on mutual trust and shared values.
Sure, women sometimes might want a guy who’s a good “protector” (even if they work and support themselves on their own), but anyone who wants to be healthy will also expect their mate to care about their own health. As a female, I would want a guy to try to look his best, even if he’s not exactly underwear model material. Some men want a girl who looks like your standard fashion model, but definitely not all. The definition of physical beauty depends on who you ask and is different according to each culture (studies have been done on this subject).
Do men need tonnes of money to get the girl they want? If they want a trophy wife who expects to live like a queen off a man, then yeah, maybe. If they want an ordinary female who simply wants a companion she can trust who can keep his d*ck in his pants amongst other women (such a rarity these days!), then they just need to meet her on the same level she’s on. Does she own a house? Then you need a house. Does she have two ex-husbands but you’ve never been married? Does she have kids but you don’t? Sorry, she’s out of your league. She needs a man who’s mature and experienced.
Does she make six figures a year but you make $50,000 or less? Then she’s not the one for you unless you start making more money.
Meet people on THEIR level and you’ll have more compatibility. Can’t complain about women being gold-diggers if you want well-to-do chicks when you’re poor. There are plenty of amazing and attractive women out there who don’t make lots of money but are still fun to be around, and who would make great p.artners for loyal men who WEREN’T looking for a sugar mama.
I’ve dated valkyries with wooden legs.
I’ve dated princesses with no hair and false teeth.
I’ve dated angels with humps and stutters.
Don’t obsess about the presentation on other people’s plates. Learn to cook then love your cooking. Abandon all negative criticism of yourself and others. You will find there are open and loving suitors sitting at your table. Keep the ones that offer to do the dishes.