At work, the typical older guy tried to start a conversation with me. Didn’t want any help that customers approach me for. Usually, and I did read about it, that if a guy approaches you or starts a conversation he well wants something from you. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, but when he started talking, I told him that I needed to go to lunch and walked off, which wasn’t a lie. I completed my task which enabled me for lunch. I didn’t try to be rude. Some will argue that oh, maybe he wasn’t trying to hit on you, he was just trying to be nice. First, I didn’t approach him, and most of the time when I talk back just to be polite. It ends with the guy constantly giving me these annoying hugs, being all touchy touchy, asking for my phone number, in other words it leads to him hitting on me. I feel empowered doing this, all these years I’ve let guys push me around, but not anymore. I have the fence up, and no one is going to trick me into putting it down. I’m thankful for all articles, books, and research that I’ve taken into understanding men and their tricks. BTW, I need to stop sounding like a broken round in my posts.
I treat this web-site like my journal. I just try to express to myself because it can’t do it in real life, either people don’t care or don’t understand. Besides, I don’t think that I’m interesting to people, so why bother speaking? I’m trying to be private in real life. I like the people here. You’re all intelligent, accepting, and don’t get all butt hurt when I say something you don’t like.
Hope that expressing myself doesn’t backfire.
I’ve been dealing with my body expansion fetish since my early twenties, probably younger, but didn’t realize that I had it. As a kid, I could remember playing Wario Land on the Gameboy, and there was this level where Wario would eat this slice of cake, then he would get fat and could crush the bricks beneath him. I remember getting some kind of enjoyment from it because I made him eat the slice of cake again, and watched him waddle. My earliest of memory of body expansion actually came to me in a dream I can’t recall it, then I liked the idea of body parts expanding.
Butt expansion is my favorite. I use to think that big butts were funny like Oh my God Becky look at her butt! Now I find them to be sexy. I worry if this makes me gay. I enjoy female expansion, but am not interested in the women, maybe it’s just the fetish. Also, I can’t beat it out of my head, but I think that the larger my curves are the better the sex. Don’t get me wrong, I have no interest in getting surgeries to enlarge anything. If I could expand it would be temperately. I would go for the hourglass expansion. There are comic books made for this fetish. I enjoy them.
I’m somewhat attracted to fat people. Guess it depends on the person.
Also, eating myself to death sounds sweet.
So, do any of you guys have any fetishes?
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Guess I’m one of those older guys…but at least I don’t go around hitting on women and giving them annoying hugs, etc. If men have a lot of tricks, I never figured them out. It would be pretty nice if I could hit on women in a way that was clear but non-annoying, and then I could tell if they might be interested or not. As it is, the whole thing seems to be an exasperating guessing game that I’ve about had it with.
Fetishes seem to come up here fairly often…I guess this is a safe place to discuss things that might be embarrassing. I’ve never even heard of a body expansion fetish before. But it doesn’t sound like anything to worry about. Just find ways to enjoy it, safely of course.
I have a HUGE foot fetish, as I mentioned in another post. Especially for when people walk around barefoot outside. It’s been sort of an “issue” lately because my new counselor keeps taking her shoes off. Lately she’s been doing it even more…once or twice, she’s stretched out and almost gotten her bare feet into my personal space. Hard to concentrate when that happens! Though I’m sure she doesn’t mean anything by it. At first I was worried she noticed my fixation on her feet, but now I’m sure she’s oblivious to it. I sort of wish I could talk to her about it, but the whole thing would be too embarrassing.
I also sort of have a sleepwalking fetish.
Try googling “mating grounds”.