Your grades don’t mean shit in the real world, especially if you lack the charm and social skills that people like
Wish I got a GED instead of getting a advanced high school diploma, would have saved me time and effort
High School school is in fact a huge waste of time because it doesn’t teach you anything about the real world, and dumbs down everything to you
Just because you get hit on by the opposite sex doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re attractive, it’s more complicated then that.
Jobs are really no different than the social cliques in high school
That men don’t want to necessarily be friends with women
When you’re not interested in dating or sleeping with a guy, the nicest thing you can do is cut him off entirely, even talking to him will give him mixed signals or the idea that he still has a chance to be with you
You’re not special and not everyone is a winner in society, school stop feeding us this bullshit special snowflake cereal
When people tell you you’re beautiful, don’t take it literally
Learn to set healthy boundaries
Dating prefaces do not make you a bigot
Men will try to groom a lot of girls into being sex objects
Start seeing the world for what it is and making do with it
People will lead you astray, sort of like putting you back to sleep, throwing you off the trail, telling you you’re wrong, so they can enforce their little agenda on you
You learn more by going to the library or searching the internet and it’s free, then wasting money to go to college. Think college only gave me the discipline to apply it.
The only way to win is to not play the game
If people are mean to you, it’s not always your fault
If people treat you like shit on a job, it’s best to leave, and tell everyone to go fuck themselves
Have the guts and intelligence to call people out on their bullshit and realize their true intentions
Trying to strive for something better in life, only makes you a slave to the system
Learn and understand about the double standards and social roles that human society displays. It’ll help you see bullshit a mile away. Think I’m starting to get redundant here.
Having the courage to say no to everything such as debt, jobs, and people sooner
Yeah, I’ll stop here. Let me know if you need me to clarify some these lines. Please add more lines. Felt like writing a paragraph about how I have a better understanding about human nature, but I find writing vague lines to be easier for me.
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“Start seeing the world for what it is and making do with it.”
If there was only one really important lesson to learn, I’d have to say this is it.
Acceptance. Would eliminate a lot of pain and grief.
Ah, acceptance is a part of the grief cycle. It goes like this: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and then Acceptance. Though I wonder would finally and successfully committing suicide be the acceptance?
“That men don’t want to necessarily be friends with women”
I find that it is easier for man and woman to have sex than to be friends.
Deep understanding and loyalty are the most difficult things to encounter between. Friendship between men and women have this particularity that [B]they can’t be superficial[/B]. Between men they can be and survive due to necessity; i surmise the same is true between – then again, I might be wrong.
I had two female friends in my life. In both instances, we understood each other without words. All we needed to do is look one another in the eyes. And every time, it all started when they showed me that they could stick out their neck for me and take care of me when I couldn’t do so for myself. It goes without saying that they could expect the same from me.
“You learn more by going to the library or searching the internet and it’s free, then wasting money to go to college. […]”
This is true except in some technical fields. As much as agree with your statement, sometimes, there is no other alternative. A nuance I should add is that: anybody just following a school curriculum will most likely not learn anything but being a mindless automaton.
The system pretends to teach you while crippling you.
In the future, you’re going to look back at your younger you that is present now and still wish you had known something more. Your opinions and your luck are subject to change and you’re along for the ride on Planet Earth with the rest of us. It’s ok to be a bit forgiving when there’s been no real harm done. Not everything is a lie, except for maybe the dumb round earth conspiracy
Very very enlightening post blue. The one that really got me having the courage to say no to everything such as debt, jobs, and people sooner. And what about your writing on a notepad so you wouldn’t have to speak ? Is it still working ?
Yep, I still do it. People just assume that you have a disability, so it’s no big deal. Though people can’t speak when under extreme stress.
Good going blue 🙂 and also have you quit speaking at all ? Or do you sometimes do ?
I meant* have you quit it altogether.
No, I can speak to my family and doctors, just not people in public. Just watch I’m going to be called a stuck up *****, so they’ll put me in line.
Doesn’t matter to you what they say.. and they eventually call most people stuck up bitches so you have nothing to worry.
Well I wrote a long post but it disappeared. Anyways, yes highschool is garbage.
Around 80% of a human’s brain is fully developed by the age of 3 (and the other 20% grows from age 4 to 25) so schools only have 20% of the brain to actually help develop. Our brains cap EARLY before we even begin school!
Elementary was good imo because it taught me actual basics. Middle school and highschools on the other hand were basically freaking daycares.
So yes, I regret not going for a GED to the point where I want to commit suicide. Seriously, my other problems aside, this alone makes me want to commit suicide.
As for the real world, it doesn’t even lead up to anything eventful. You just survive in this pointless, mind-numbing world just to slowly age and become pathetic, then you die. The real world sucks. It’s lame as hell and for what? Just work like a slave.
Yep, killing myself soon.
“You learn more by going to the library or searching the internet and it’s free, then wasting money to go to college. Think college only gave me the discipline to apply it.”
Yep. I just want the credentials but I learn more on my own. So much is wrong with the garbage school system.
It’s dumb how school is free up until the point where it actually matters (I mean it is arguably free for 2 more yrs if you go to a CC first which further defeats the purpose of doing well in highschool. I regret being a try-hard in highschool. Those grades got me nowhere. I could have went straight to a UC and for what? What was my reward for trying hard? Just to go straight to a university to get debt when it’s financially smarter to go to a CC first? Shit what a lousy reward).
Also, half the bachelors degree is basically general eds. Okay, so half your bachelors is repeating highschool classes.. wtf
Well, homeschooling is on the rise. Yeah, you’re not alone, everyone is starting to criticize this shit school system. Plus, you can get a GED and go straight to community college. Get an associate’s degree. Yeah, I think I had a college instructor admit that sometimes high school doesn’t do its job, and that’s why we need to do remedy classes. I like community college more than university because the people at community college are more down to earth and mature, and the classes on affordable like you can possibly pay out of your own pocket for classes. Universities are more nice looking and fancy then a community college, but I prefer community college.
Good advice
People never encourage you or praise you and they will destroy you just for the hell of it. Its hard to stomach but that’s what people are like.