Losing a true friend always hurts. No matter how many times it has happened to me, I can never get used to it (especially when you have like 3 friends and you can’t afford to lose anyone, like me). Worse of it all, if it’s my fault. Here’s the story of how it happened…
What started like a fun party turned for the worse, when one of my closest friends started feeling pretty bad because of the alcohol. In the end, he suffered an alcohol overdose and was rushed to the hospital. We all hoped we would hear from him that week. But we didn’t.
Today I found out he is okay, but I learned it the hard way. He won’t answer our messages. He left every group in which we were together. He blocked the majority of us from social media…
So I reached a conclusion. Either he was forced to never reach out to us and be with us ever again… Or he is really mad at us.
It sucks. I don’t know what to do or think. He is without a doubt one of the best friends I’ve ever had. I don’t want to lose him. I could have done much more to help him.
But I didn’t. I guess everyone who I love ends up leaving anyways… Guess I deserve it…
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My first thought is, maybe he’s really embarrassed or ashamed so he wanted to get away from everyone. My second thought is maybe his parents (if he lives with his parents) got mad at him for drinking and took away his internet & social media. Do you think either of those are possible? I guess you’ll find out soon enough. It’s a rotten situation but at least he hasn’t specifically told you off. I hope it turns out ok
As long as he is ok, you should be happy. Don’t worry, he’ll come around if it’s meant to be. May I suggest a lifestyle change? That much alcohol is NEVER ok.