I feel so sad and extremely lonely at the moment. Everybody in my family probably hates me now. Even my favorite sister that I care for so much (she’s 6 years older than me) hates me too I think
“Even my favorite sister that I care for so much (she’s 6 years older than me) hates me too I think.”
You said ” I think”, which means “maybe”, and in this case, there’s no gray area: She hates you, or she doesn’t, right? ( I tried semi-hating coconut as a child, but had to move directly to hate because it’s just repulsive.) So, to an odds maker that’s two to one. Exactly a fifty percent chance that you are very special to her.
Hate them back. Clearly you’re not in a good place in your life so if they look down on you, how are they any better than a stranger on the street? And sometimes strangers have more heart/kindness than your family.
Just switch roles for a minute-if you sister was in a bad place would you not help her, be supportive? Yet she’s not doing that for you. So why would you chase after people who hate you and won’t be there for you?
I think you and I are a lot alike. I’m a very caring/generous person by nature-that’s just the way my brain is wired. But after getting screwed over by people who I thought were close I learned my lesson. Now I’m more utilitarian-I treat people the way they treat me, I will use them until I have no need for them and if they’ve thrown me under the bus, I’ll do the same to them when I feel the time is right.
Of course so long as someone treats me with respect I’ll do the same-if they’re two-faced then they’ll get what’s coming and when they least expect it.
No, don’t waste time “hating” people. Just move on with your life and don’t interact with them unless necessary. Don’t let people have control over your emotional state. If you start taking “revenge” it could become a non-stop sh*t show and they might hold grudges forever and be mean to you for the rest of your life.
Choose dignity instead of hatred.
I’m reminding myself about… a mannerly introduction which will be entirely futile. Either one of them, I’ll still be here… somewhere. I like writing sometimes… I think. Astrologic, what do you think… I don’t care because specifically due. Like a molten dew. I’m whispering to nobody, just wait until you hear this music. I’ll keep this one a secret, but if you stay far. I lost one, would you give it back, if I asked. Makes me think for a second, to know the question of the doubt.
I could only fall upon myself. In a sense. I’m still here, with the unspoken, I suppose. A bit of unknown, is this mysterious if…. you didn’t know. Or magus or humane, too. I like to creative write, would you bit this. Tell me what you really think of all of this. I dispel to the supernatural, one with the rainbow. One day, perhaps I’ll see the light. For now, the Present.
Super-sonic. I’m still in the game. I’m thinking, what you may already know or predict as well, was that… even the mass of Snorlax, wouldn’t make any impact. Despite, how much… the pounds. That’s how we count, in our system. Unless you’re from another continent. What is it?
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“Even my favorite sister that I care for so much (she’s 6 years older than me) hates me too I think.”
You said ” I think”, which means “maybe”, and in this case, there’s no gray area: She hates you, or she doesn’t, right? ( I tried semi-hating coconut as a child, but had to move directly to hate because it’s just repulsive.) So, to an odds maker that’s two to one. Exactly a fifty percent chance that you are very special to her.
Hate them back. Clearly you’re not in a good place in your life so if they look down on you, how are they any better than a stranger on the street? And sometimes strangers have more heart/kindness than your family.
Just switch roles for a minute-if you sister was in a bad place would you not help her, be supportive? Yet she’s not doing that for you. So why would you chase after people who hate you and won’t be there for you?
I think you and I are a lot alike. I’m a very caring/generous person by nature-that’s just the way my brain is wired. But after getting screwed over by people who I thought were close I learned my lesson. Now I’m more utilitarian-I treat people the way they treat me, I will use them until I have no need for them and if they’ve thrown me under the bus, I’ll do the same to them when I feel the time is right.
Of course so long as someone treats me with respect I’ll do the same-if they’re two-faced then they’ll get what’s coming and when they least expect it.
No, don’t waste time “hating” people. Just move on with your life and don’t interact with them unless necessary. Don’t let people have control over your emotional state. If you start taking “revenge” it could become a non-stop sh*t show and they might hold grudges forever and be mean to you for the rest of your life.
Choose dignity instead of hatred.
habeebty
if it ‘s about your previous post
believe me, believe me, believe me
they don’t hate you
they love you so so very much
& it’s breaking their hearts
& hurting them
that you’d just leave like that 🙁
I’m not your real sister
& I felt that
how would they be feeling ?
narcissistic or not narcissistic
they are your sisters
& you are their sister
no psychological condition can ever change that
<3
please sweetness
please please please
drop this whole thing,
makeup with them
& let's "try" to adapt to the problems
instead of giving up all together
please give yourself a chance
<3 <3 <3
xoxoxo
I’m reminding myself about… a mannerly introduction which will be entirely futile. Either one of them, I’ll still be here… somewhere. I like writing sometimes… I think. Astrologic, what do you think… I don’t care because specifically due. Like a molten dew. I’m whispering to nobody, just wait until you hear this music. I’ll keep this one a secret, but if you stay far. I lost one, would you give it back, if I asked. Makes me think for a second, to know the question of the doubt.
I could only fall upon myself. In a sense. I’m still here, with the unspoken, I suppose. A bit of unknown, is this mysterious if…. you didn’t know. Or magus or humane, too. I like to creative write, would you bit this. Tell me what you really think of all of this. I dispel to the supernatural, one with the rainbow. One day, perhaps I’ll see the light. For now, the Present.
Do you know what the Raichu, could do. Hurry let me know.
Super-sonic. I’m still in the game. I’m thinking, what you may already know or predict as well, was that… even the mass of Snorlax, wouldn’t make any impact. Despite, how much… the pounds. That’s how we count, in our system. Unless you’re from another continent. What is it?
Hi.
dude, what..
Your family does not hate you, there are worried about you. If they really hate you will be living on the streets. They are just concerned
I don’t know what you may have done to make them possibly hate you. But since you sound regretful, maybe you can make it up to them, apologise?
Do take care.
Hugs