I’ll spare the specific details. Essentially I need to commit to something that will make people close to me angry. I know I can’t live for others and should do what’s best for me and on top of that this opportunity might not arise again but not acting is safe and won’t cause tension with those close to me. I often find myself choosing the safe choice. I’m too anxious and risk adverse.
By taking the first step. It sounds much easier than it is, but having been in similar situations, there’s only one way to get things moving – action. Trying to figure out where the courage will come from will only lead to more delays. If your gut is telling you to do this, do it. It knows what you need.
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May l ask: what do you need to do?
I’ll spare the specific details. Essentially I need to commit to something that will make people close to me angry. I know I can’t live for others and should do what’s best for me and on top of that this opportunity might not arise again but not acting is safe and won’t cause tension with those close to me. I often find myself choosing the safe choice. I’m too anxious and risk adverse.
I’ll let others tell you other solutions because l don’t have one except: just do it.
Potential and kinetic energy. I’d guess you’d just need a kick in the @$$
By taking the first step. It sounds much easier than it is, but having been in similar situations, there’s only one way to get things moving – action. Trying to figure out where the courage will come from will only lead to more delays. If your gut is telling you to do this, do it. It knows what you need.