this isnt really a rant but rather a question.
i want to change my personality so badly. i’m the most annoying person you’ll ever meet and it hurts badly when people yell at me for being so annoying and talkative. like i’m so insecure about it. how can i be less annoying? i’ve tried everything and tried to be less annoying but it just doesn’t work.
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People are different. I get the opposite – constant insinuations that I’m too quiet. You can try censoring yourself more and holding back but honestly it’s likely to just make you more insecure. If people find you annoying, I’d say fuck them. What matters is that you like who you are and the things you say. Look for other people who are like you.
I honestly think cute and annoying are kinda the same thing. Like how having a high pitch voice is cute to some people but annoying to others.
Being talkative is the same. Talking a lot is fun and energetic to some people but loud and annoying to others.
Being quiet can be seen as boring and lifeless to some, but humble and calm to to others
I don’t think you should bother trying to alter yourself. If you change yourself to make group A like you, you’ll find that group B doesn’t anymore.
Is there something about yourself that you like?
no