I fucked up and I don’t deserve pity. My stupid self cheated in a BIO exam and I am at risk of being investigated. I’m a university, sophomore pre-med student hoping to become a pediatrician but my stupid self couldn’t study enough and I had to resort to cheating. I regret it and I can’t justify what I did but I’m so scared of the possibility of having this on my record and unable to get scholarships, being suspended or expelled, and unable to get into medical school. I don’t know what to do and I am afraid that I might not want to live with the possibility of not achieving my childhood dream and failing everyone who believed in me.
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Yes this may seem like me not manning up and not wanting to face the consequences but I just can’t bear this stress
I just wanted to say I know how it feels because I got kicked out of school and it sucks. But it hasn’t happened yet for you, so there’s a chance things won’t be as bad as you think. Maybe they’ll take pity on you and let you get off with a Fail or Incomplete, but not expelled. I think expulsion is usually an extreme measure they take in rare cases. After all, they’re getting your tuition money, so why would they get rid of a paying customer. I know this doesn’t help but maybe it’s something that might help you handle it, knowing there are possibilities. Good luck.
Is there a chance that you could appeal to your university and communicate your remorse? That might be a possibility. I made a fatal error in my career a few years ago. I did a lot of repenting and groveling, I made it out the other side but still with enduring consequences. BUT there is always a chance to admit our mistakes and convey our authentic remorse. Best wishes for you.
Is there a chance that you could appeal to your university and communicate your remorse? That might be a possibility. I made a fatal error in my life a few years ago that shouldn’t have, but did, impact my career. It was bad and did a lot of repenting and groveling, I made it out the other side but still with enduring consequences. BUT there is always a chance to admit our mistakes and convey our authentic remorse. Best wishes for you.
Sorry for the double comment. I can’t figure out how to delete.