You can find someone out there, given there are millions of people and many are single. It comes down to finding someone at your own level in most cases.
Meeting people does require a positive, easy-going attitude and finding things in common with others.
Then you have to put yourself out there, either through online sites, or trying to meet people in person and developing a ‘game’ or strategy to start convos and going from there.
Ofc the more you bring to the table like a good body, income, house, etc. the more appealing you might be to others.
Some people luck out and get someone above their level and that’s what usually most people are trying to do, but your odds are better to aim for someone who’s in a similar range to yourself.
Obviously if we’re sad and have other issues in our life, its hard to be friendly, outgoing and it can ruin chances, I’m speaking from experience.
You also have to risk getting rejection and egg on your face, you might have to hit on 10-100 people and then maybe get a positive result.
You’re not alone, I’m in the same boat…but I have some other issues in my life to resolve first like moving to a new place this (if all goes well), then I’m going to lose some weight and get back into the dating world.
When I was in high school, I knew I wasn’t any Casanova, though some girls did tell me I was cute, but I was also realistic. I knew I had to ‘settle down’ if I managed to land a great girl.
I did a few times and it got to me head, I got a bit arrogant and lost sight of my goal. Eventually I got distracted with life, got older, lost some of my appeal and didn’t get such great opportunities again.
So I kind of ruined it for myself-nothing I can do now but try again now that I’m past middle age. So the odds are harder but so long as I’m living I’m going to keep trying.
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You can find someone out there, given there are millions of people and many are single. It comes down to finding someone at your own level in most cases.
Meeting people does require a positive, easy-going attitude and finding things in common with others.
Then you have to put yourself out there, either through online sites, or trying to meet people in person and developing a ‘game’ or strategy to start convos and going from there.
Ofc the more you bring to the table like a good body, income, house, etc. the more appealing you might be to others.
Some people luck out and get someone above their level and that’s what usually most people are trying to do, but your odds are better to aim for someone who’s in a similar range to yourself.
Obviously if we’re sad and have other issues in our life, its hard to be friendly, outgoing and it can ruin chances, I’m speaking from experience.
You also have to risk getting rejection and egg on your face, you might have to hit on 10-100 people and then maybe get a positive result.
You’re not alone, I’m in the same boat…but I have some other issues in my life to resolve first like moving to a new place this (if all goes well), then I’m going to lose some weight and get back into the dating world.
When I was in high school, I knew I wasn’t any Casanova, though some girls did tell me I was cute, but I was also realistic. I knew I had to ‘settle down’ if I managed to land a great girl.
I did a few times and it got to me head, I got a bit arrogant and lost sight of my goal. Eventually I got distracted with life, got older, lost some of my appeal and didn’t get such great opportunities again.
So I kind of ruined it for myself-nothing I can do now but try again now that I’m past middle age. So the odds are harder but so long as I’m living I’m going to keep trying.