You still can be. It takes a lot of courage to do so, but you can still do it. You might need help from a support group like friends or family and that’s ok. I hope you’re able to make it through this.
Don’t blame yourself if you’re stuck. Toxic situations happen because the abuser knows you can’t get away so easy. It’s like being caught in quicksand, you can swear it’ll never happen to you but sometimes it just does. In both cases, toxic situations or quicksand, it helps if you can find someone on the outside to give you stability.
I was with a toxic Borderline wife for 25 years. I get it. I lost my will to live along the way. Get out asap if you can. You still might have a decent life ahead. For me its too late.
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You still can be. It takes a lot of courage to do so, but you can still do it. You might need help from a support group like friends or family and that’s ok. I hope you’re able to make it through this.
Don’t blame yourself if you’re stuck. Toxic situations happen because the abuser knows you can’t get away so easy. It’s like being caught in quicksand, you can swear it’ll never happen to you but sometimes it just does. In both cases, toxic situations or quicksand, it helps if you can find someone on the outside to give you stability.
Dont blame yourself. This can happen to anyone, and it’s not your fault. You deserve better than that, and I hope your life will get better from here.
I was with a toxic Borderline wife for 25 years. I get it. I lost my will to live along the way. Get out asap if you can. You still might have a decent life ahead. For me its too late.