I keep hearing that im not acting like my self latly…. Oh really?!?! You must know me better than I do because I dont even know who I am. Yet you think you know me well enough to go around telling me when im not acting like myself and when i am? I dont think so! Every time you do this you know it pisses me off yet you keep doing it claiming that ur “just trying to help”! I am so done with you!!!
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dude if someone actually NOTICES that you aren’t acting like yourself, that means you are probably not acting like yourself. I know what you mean when you ***** about it, but seriously. And btw, saying “I am so done with you!” sounds extremely petty and really self centered. And sometimes people actually DO know you better than you know yourself. You just have to deny it, because it feels like a lie, or somehow wrong. Those are probably the people you should be around more, so that you can begin to know yourself more and more, bit by bit, based on how they treat you and when they notice that something seems off with you. ok? I’m sorry if I’ve offended you in any way, and I’m sorry if you think all of this is bullshit. But if you’re going to post things like this and not expect at least one person to yell at you about these kinds of things, then you shouldn’t post it in the first place.
What else am i suppose to do when i am told i am pissy and a ***** on a daily basis? So maybe i do have a problem like depression or whatever bacause i cant get out of this funk i have been in for a month but help me dont get on my case about it.. i mean…im at the end of my rope i dont know how else to deal with this other than to get mad
You do realize that a lot of the people on here are also at the end of their ropes and don’t feel like being the nicest people either, right? And if you’re REALLY told that on a daily bases, either you really ARE bitchy and pissy on a daily bases, or you need to tell those people to shut the fuck up and stop saying that shit. Seriously, you need to figure out a different way to deal with this besides being angry. Being angry makes it worse, and may also be what’s causing those people to say those things. Did you know, that if you smile or laugh, even if it’s fake, it will automatically make your mood better? Seriously it does. Especially if you think your fake laugh sounds stupid and then you start laughing for real because of that. I’m trying to give you advice through the things I’ve gone through and how I learned to deal with them. I’m sorry that it may not exactly make sense, but not all I say is getting on your case, even if it sounds like it.
Im sorry i really didnt mean to come off as self centered. Im just not used to having my friends call me bitchy and pissy and accually be serious. I have tried being fake but that usually just results in me being even worse of a person when i am “being myself”, but maybe I’ll try it again.. at this point i would most likely try anything. I didn’t mean that you were getting on my case.
yeah it’s ok. I tend to say stuff that gives people that impression when I’m trying not to do that very thing. Although I admit I WAS a little on your case. Sorry bout that. Being yourself is generally the best thing to do. ANd when I say smile or laugh, I don’t mean to a uber fake smile or laugh that sounds pathetic. When you fake smile make it feel goofy on your face and then imagine that you look really funny and laugh at it. Same with if you fake laugh. Make it sound really lame and then laugh at the lameness of it. Like this: fake laugh = HA. HA. HA. real laughter at the fake laugh = HAHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!! you know? It’s really hard to type out the sound of a laugh. lol
I can only tell you 1 thing: you are who you define yourself.