Okay, so, I had my first serious relationship last year, he was my best friend and I loved him, anyways, stuff got in the way.. he broke up with me. My self-esteem had been very fragile well up until then, I dealt with an eating disorder throughout middle school and had looked at suicide as an option a few times in my life already. Anyways, he fell in love with my best friend. I felt as if she was the only one left that would listen to me and love me and now I feel like I’ve lost her too, I’ve lost everything. We all hang out together but it honestly kills me to see them together, and they feel my energy about it and I just want them to be happy and love each other, I hate myself for being sad about it. My best friend made a post about how shes getting fed up with peoples energies and bullshit and how shes sick of it. For this and other things I just feel like the biggest burden ever, I don’t know what to do. I cut but that no longer relieves these feelings, I know I’m unwanted and worthless at this point, people only hang out/ talk to me out of obligation now. I’m seeing my favorite band in a month, they are pretty much the only thing that give me any kind of hope now. After seeing them, if things arn’t better, I’ve planned out the end. There won’t be any turning back once I’ve decided, and then they can be happy, I’ll be out of the picture.
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Your best friend made a post on here? The odds on that happening must be in the millions. Two people knowing each other in the real world posting independently on the same suicide site.
no, a post on a blogging site that we follow each other on, sorry I sound a bit confusing when I write sometimes.
If you are having difficulty in accepting their new found love, don’t you think it might be a good idea to go your separate ways.
she the only thing I had left though, everybody else has gone from my life. I have an anxiety disorder and so its very hard for me to make other friends. shes like my sister, and if she starts to dislike me then theres really nothing left to live for.
I don’t know how I’m going to make you feel better. I just don’t know anything anymore.
I know, I’m sorry, this is my problem too :/
Don’t be sorry
It won’t last between them. When they fall out, she’ll run back to you.
Sounds like they are messing with you. If you’re stuck playing their game then the only way to win seems to be to betray them in some bigger way. The love birds are gonna wear on you until you just snap and burn your entire town to the ground.
He probably still wants to bang you, so you could pump out a sex tape and get your best friend back. Or bang her older brother/dad. Honestly she sounds like a crappy friend anyway, I’d probably just get a puppy and make it my best friend from now on.
I’m thinking that it will last though, they really really love each other alot. much more than he ever loved me. having feelings for her was one of the reasons he broke up with me. but thank-you, I just want to have her back as my best friend.
and I am sorry, I’m sorry for being so difficult and hopeless
There is nothing that I can say that will make you see things more clearly. You clearly feel upset enough about it to post on here. It’s not a nice experience for you. The best thing to do is allow yourself to feel upset. If this site still exists in a few years, I think you should re-visit this post and comment on it.