I’m falling apart. Everything and everyone I once cared about dont matter to me anymore. I use to be a really good soccer player and loved it but now when I play I don’t feel the same happiness I use to. I don’t care about some of my friends anymore. I feel like they all are fake and will leave me like my last friends . I just seem not to care about anything really.
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Hi Nicole. It sounds like you are at a time in your life when you are evaluating your friends and seeing who are your true friends and who you’d be better off without. I recently cut my best friend out of my life, because I realized that he didn’t care about me at all. Sometimes you’re better off with fewer, but more genuine friends. 🙂
Yeah lately I noticed most of the people I thought cared never really did.
Hi Nicole,
I went through that and I know what it feels like to get to that low. Looking backward from now, I wish I had sorted out those feelings then and moved forward in the right direction. I don’t want your unhappiness lead to a route of poor decisions. Do not end up like me. I think all the time about how much potential I had then and how much promise my future held. I let it all slip. All because I stopped caring. Work through this NOW. Think about what’s best for you. Nobody else matters. You are the only one that holds the power of your success and where you end up in ten years from now. Everything in the now is going to change. Time doesn’t care if you get left behind. Time isn’t going to wait. These people in your life right now, they’re all going to change. They just happen to be on the same path as you in the now. Find a way out of this funk you’re in and don’t waste time. Every decision you make now determines your future. Make good decisions and don’t do anything against who you are. Rather sounds like depression. Conquer and overcome because depression isn’t forever.
That’s not a good attitude. People may not care. It doesn’t matter. Keep them around if you value their company. There’s plenty more people out there, if you just want a different set of friends. Just don’t hang out with people you don’t want to end up like. Some people may care but maybe not in the way you want them to care. Or they may care but not in the way you need them to care. In any case, be respectful.
@KBailey Thank you for the advice and ill try to get back to where I use to be.
Nichole, never give up you can always text me if you need to text me at 239-269-4862. And by the way my middle name is Nichole 🙂
@haylee_loves_you Thank you. Ill send you a text later. And my name isn’t Nichole lol it’s actually Nicolette Nicole is my nickname.