way out!

hi,

life is hard, and there is no way out of the hardness in life. so how to make life easier? be strong. if something is really hard to do, what you have to do is get good at it, and then it will become easier to bear. and that will make you an admirable person.

i remember a few times in my life where it’s like i looked up, and i looked down, and i realized, “wow, this is it. my life is ruined, at least regarding this.” and then later everything was ok, and now all of that is behind me. but i know that despair, the exact thought of “will i be depressed forever???” in the midst of a feeling that makes me certain that i would be. the good thing is that you never ever know what the future holds, and you never ever can see much of it coming. you might have a good idea of some things, but the bulk of your future is a mystery to you. this is a good reason to always have hope for tomorrow.

please send me an email, and i will try to write to you some more, if you’ll tell me about what it is that’s hard for you right now.