I came to this site hoping to find a place where I could share my feelings and just have people accept it. I get that everyone wants to help but all I’ve gotten is judgmental comments. Regardless of if you’re trying to be hurtful or not, I’m in a fragile place and I don’t think this is the right site for me to be on. Maybe I’ll come back later but I can’t deal with this anymore. Thanks SP for nothing.
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Dude… your last post got a couple comments, one from a sort of “tough love” perspective, and another from an absolute troll.
I checked the rest of them, i don’t see that “all you’ve gotten is judgmental comments.”
Maybe i missed something…
I checked also. Maybe try and remember that this site is filled with a ton of other people who are in pain and suffering and it’s hard for them to always be supportive. It’s hard and there are never any magic words. And, some people mean well but their words seem harsh. That’s the thing with writing a response – the tone of the person”s voice is lost.
Maybe you should try and find a real person or counselor to talk to?
I also wanted to mention i can sort of relate to the sentiment of not feeling “helped.” Not that i really expected other suicidally depressed people would “help” me (i doubt anyone really can), but… at least it’s some sort of outlet, and people who experience some similar things… regardless of the degree of similarity.
@ da previous “commentors”» I think yal missed the part that mentioned that even when people mean well he/she still feels hurt due 2 being fragile. So let it be for now and the person will return when he/she is ready…
yeah, that’s what i was doing by not saying anything else… after agreeing with what was said about not feeling like it was helping.
It’s ironic how so many people seem to think i’m the one “missing the point” of something…
The point is that his posts don’t seem to have drawn the “judgmental comments” he mentioned, but we do understand that sometimes it doesn’t feel like it’s “helping.”
I’m not sure how… what sort of flawed logic you’re using, to determine that either of us “previous commentors” missed any of the points. It seems like an unreasonable and invalid conclusion for you to have reached.
No one is obligated to ever return to this site, should they lack the desire to do so.
It was “let be.” I’m not sure why you seemed to think it wasn’t.
Are they really judgmental, or are you choosing to read them that way so you can feel more alone than ever? Are you pushing everyone away?
Look guys, I’m just saying that right now I’m in a place where I don’t think I should be dwelling on a site like this. You’re right, I can’t hear people’s tones and I don’t actually know what they’re trying to say. So no, I’m not purposefully trying to read them with a judgmental attitude and I’m not pushing people away…I’m just used to having people judge me whenever I shared my thoughts and feelings and it’s hard to get over that. I post things in the heat of the moment and the more I read this post the less truth I see in it. I have to learn to be happy and I don’t think I can do that here. Btw I’m a girl lol :p
Oh. Well. Then. Um… okay!
But yeah, it’s hard to feel good when your days are filled with stories of people in despair.