I give up. I can’t fight my ex anymore. I really like my job, and the people I work with aren’t jerks or anything. But I just can’t anymore. I think I’m going to give my two weeks notice and then use the two weeks to finalize my plans. Its time to leave
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I know you like your job, hell it’s all you ever speak of most times (not suggesting anything of course) but giving up in the face of overwhelming odds defeats the whole purpose of a fight. But you fought well, I’ll give that to you and…well done for keeping it up this long *salutes*. Must you leave so soon? I mean, if I could walk I would’ve been long gone, but nope I have to see what happens this week. Plus there’s my dog who I can’t leave on her own…mm I dunno.
I don’t know most of your story and i assume that it’s a lot more than just your ex screwing up with your life, but if you like your job, couldn’t you just dissapear into some place where he can’t reach/find you and work at a similar thing there? i know it’s a long shot but just had to suggest it, since the bits that i’ve read sounds like the worst part is your ex’s antics.
I’m confused. I thought your ex was not really your ex, just a dork who pretended to have a relationship with you. I hope this ex is someone else, because the other ex isn’t worth it (actually, no ex is).
He is actually my ex. A creepy, stalker, nutcase who I used to date. Don’t ask me why. I have no explanation for it. I just know I regret it. Now because of him, the guys at work think I’m a whore, his facebook friends think I’m knocked up, and customers that I used to get along with now don’t talk to me because of what he’s said to me. I already know I’m shit, but it shockingly hurts when he actually says it out loud. I’m just done, my mom thinks I’m crap, dad isn’t home anymore, sister is a *****….I honestly don’t even know if I can summon the stregnth to stay for Violet. I love her so much and don’t want to leave her…but I’m not sure I can take it anymore.
Disregard. Disregard and, uhh…DISREGARD. To hell with them, and all their bullshit. What’s it been like…4 months I’ve been commenting on your posts? I get the sense that you’re so much more than this…nonsense you’re stuck with and I wish I could remove you from all of it. You deserve better, Kallian. My dog is my only true friend and she’s been there with me for the past 10 years. I love her more than anything, and I know how hard it’s going to be for you to let go of Violet. But that’s just the way it is I s’pose.