This website has seperated.
Before it was all friendly and everyone was talking to each other and being nice
Now a lot of new people have come and tooken over..
Like, there’s a group of friends on here now that only talk to each other, Posts are ignored because this group just gets larger and larger
It’s like at school. There’s a girl/boy.. they have friends.. new people come a long and Bam, friends are gone.
This site is supposed to be a big community to help others in getting better and other stuff, not making a big group of “online friends” and ruling it.
It was really good when I first joined. Now it’s rude and obnoxious.
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Really? I haven’t really notived anyone doing that?
everyone here is on the same side. But, personally for me, I can’t go on about and try to talk and help everyone that’s on here,,, im too weak for that… iono, im… kind of too tired to think right now…
and…. you just feel free to butt in’ , haha im sorry im too tired to organize my thoughts right now,. JUST BUTT iN Man it’s cool =p
Yup, you might not notice it because you’re “in” that group maybe? Idk, but theres not many people on here religiously and it’s obvious as to who’s in this “group”
If you butt in on conversations on here you’re just given the cold shoulder by most people.
nope. no cold shoulders, just butt in. haha
People do get the cold shoulder. The things i’ve read on here are so rude it’s unbelievable to think this is a place for help and support. The level of respect on here is appauling sometimes.
hey Nicola, when you talk about the cold shoulder thing perhaps you’re taking it too personally, …
i agree, but really i suppose, you never know when someone may just stop posting all together, so if someone can find that small group to talk to its good, but then just for them. so i agree that you shouldn’t shun people cause you dont noamlly talk to them, but if you are lucky enough to make friends with someone on here, then good on you, im glad people are doing that, if it helps them. but yes, at the same time everyone should realise we are all here for the same reason.
I’m not taking it personally, I’m talking in general. This post isn’t about myself. It’s about everyone who’s had this. X-boy, you’re one of the ones I’m talking about in this post honestly, Althought you’re not rude and obnoxious but you are connected to the ones who rule this site now and eventually you will give a cold shoulder.
This site is all well and nice for making friends but why don’t people broaden themselves and actually make the effort to support others in the same boat?
People on here are ignored when they have serious issues they need help with from us lot, and they’re totally dismissed because the home page is taken up of people’s conversations and posts to others.
The whole support from this site has gone, no one is half as valued as they was 3 months ago when I joined.
It’s probably making people worse the amount of support they don’t recieve.
I try very hard to reach out to everyone on this site. Sadly I’m getting exhausted and I’ve been ignoring my own pain so I can help others. I’m sorry if I’m one of those people in a ‘group’. I never meant to make anyone feel shunned. 🙁 I’m sorry everyone.
why try reaching out to people? you have your own problems. We all want to try to help. You shouldnt be the only one trying to help everyone. You need to help yourself too insted of straining and tiring youself out to reach and help others.
Sorry it’s my fault. I’m to blame, il leave ok? Sorry. Bye
No, Nicola, I feel the same way…
People, well, Humanity in general are fat pigs that feed off of other people’s pain. Those “Life Taking Pigs”, Humanity, should die the worst death I think. They’re ignorant, judgmental bastards. I don’t like any of them. Especially the “Cliques” or whatever. Fuck them, they are nothing and deserve nothing.
Your Friend,
Riley Morgan
hey Nicola, earlier when i was talking to you,,, i didn’t have a straight mind… mhm, i was speaking but i wasn’t putting any consideration on what i was saying, n i apologize for that, mhm, well, talk to you later. I mean i can relate with what you’re saying, when i first came on here, nobody would ever comment on my post haha, but i didn’t really mind. Eventually by buttin’ in, haha i made some good friends. Iono, jus’ babblin’
idk im was new and i only talk to one person from here… cause not many people have talked to me.. :/
im new and i would hope people talk to me.. its what i need now i feel so alone
I do alot of commenting and I don’t really get alot in return. But thats life and I’m used to it already.