My dad committed suicide 10 years back and I feel he wasn’t happy in the afterlife. My brother even thought that he had communicated with him. Even I might have felt his presence sometimes. I fear that I may become a ghost after my suicide.
What do you guys think about a suicide case’s afterlife? Is any of you a psychic medium? Or maybe you had a relative who committed suicide and you could tell your experience with them? Or maybe you have a logical argument regarding this issue? I have N by my side and the only thing keeping me from from taking the plunge is this question.
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I honestly don’t have an ‘instinctual’ fear of death like most people have but I do fear what might happen after the suicide.
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My grandfather committed suicide but I don’t feel his presence and I never met him. He died before I was born.
My father died naturally and I feel his presence sometimes.
So I think feel the presence isn’t related to suicide but to the connection you have to that person.
About afterlife, I don’t believe in it. One life is enough!
I think the feeling of the presence of a dead person is ourselves, our feelings when we miss someone.
I get what you’re trying to say here, but the harsh fact is that there can be life after death.
I personally have encountered the paranormal at least 5 times at different points in my life. Once, I saw a guy who had died in my neighbourhood a few days back (and of who’s death I came to know only later) standing by my bedside uttering complete nonsense, once I witnessed a female spirit wearing white clothes walking into my room, once I witnessed a poltergeist whom I couldn’t see but it used to disturb me while sleeping at night by ‘shaking’ my pillow (which eventually forced me to stop using a pillow while sleeping), then I witnessed my bed shaking at times a few months back only without any earthquake or any other natural reason, etc.
i talk to my dead brother all the time. i know its probably all in my head, but sometimes he says things to me that i dont think i wud have thought up.
is it possible to be haunted by a soul on the other side, without seeing them, but still hearing them, when nobody else can?
or am i just totaly crazy?
Why do you fear of becoming a ghost?
I don’t know. Maybe because it’s a possibility and my dad also became one and also since suicide is an unnatural form of death and therefore there’s a risk of becoming a ghost as a result if it.
There’s nothing wrong of being a ghost. It’s not like you will be in pain or anything. If thats the case if you kill yourself, at least you will get to meet your father again.
Did your father kill himself in your house or did he do it somewhere else
Bro, I have no wish whatsoever to meet my dad as a ghost. If anything, it is a possibility that only scares me because whenever he came across to me, he came across as very sad. I don’t want to live another sad existence even if it means being with him.
He killed himself in the house. In fact, he killed himself in the same room on lying on the same bed where I intend to kill myself
If you are right and he’s a ghost, he probably haunts the house since he killed himself in it. Me personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to kill yourself in your house because it will just become a graveyard. Especially if you have family
Bro, no offence but I think your understanding of suicide and related questions is a bit limited.
When dying, nobody thinks of questions like reuniting with a sad dad, graveyard, etc. At least I don’t. 🙂
I know it’s only our physical bodies that truly die. Everyone has a spirit/energy inside of them what you could call a soul. Souls don’t die our energys don’t just simply die. Our souls are eternal birthless, deathless and changeless. It’s the purest form of love. That is what we are and forever will be.
Well here’s a story for you…
My friend hung self about 6 years ago. It was an absolute shock and there was no way in hell she was leaving like this. Fuck her to hell she hurt the hell out of my family. The most saddest Christmas day ever.
Here’s the thing you can’t leave if you got unfinished business. She didn’t realize only your dam body dissapears when you die!
Anyway she hurt alot of people and she couldn’t leave was like earthbound until she made it right. My family were always scared when she tried to get through to them in dreams and stuff. She used to come to me as a bird and I knew and seriously I used to scream at it to fuck off. I hated her. Then one day my brother had enough he didn’t believe in this shit but he just knew he had to do something so he went into the cupboard where she hung self and a butterfly appeared. He said he was talking to a butterflie and it was telling him it was alright. Things settled down after that but she was still around annoying people then one night at a party this psychic lady said to my cousin there’s a woman standing beside you and described her. It was her. That was the ultimate in heartbreak all the truth was spoken why and blah blah but in the end it was her choice. She spent 6months after she deid like trapped to this earth because she had to make it right with all the people she loved loved her and that she hurt…
Yeah so if you think your dad’s still around he probably is. People don’t go to hell when they commit suicide rather much they stay here in their own hell that they have created in their mind. They can’t move on to the next world until they have found the answers to life and have no unfinished business. Some spirits are lucky they have people that have deid before them guide them through the healing process and understanding who you truly are and the meaning to everything…
Yeah I don’t have the right words to say what I even know. I know all about death and the afterlife. I really wish I could discourage people from suicide though because it’s pointless trust me. You will just be reborn again with the same karmas that you never let come out in previous lives. Everything has an answer but until you can fully and with all your heart and soul believe the ultimate answer you’ll just live a million lifetimes.
Well I guess a skeptical topic deserves a crazy response aye! Lol
Nice reply. What you’re saying could indeed be true. It’s just that I feel like my time here is more or less up. I can’t seem to walk away from it. There’s more than 90% chance that I’ll die by my own hands.
No what I’m saying is indeed the painful truth. People like to believe that death leads to nothingness and you just forget everything and everyone and just become no more. This is so not the case. If you must suicide from this life means you are not ready to die. Your not ready for the next journey into the real spiritual world. We come here to learn about ourselves in this life and find the answers and live the dream. Why not live this life out beats coming back to try again at square one.
Wanna know something I know my friend was reborn again she is now her sisters son. I wish I could go so bad this is what keeps me here. I am never coming back to this life in physical bodied life again.
I guess sometimes I have. But, I hope no matter WHAT happens, I don’t have to meet god.