I have had many instances in recently where I seriously just cannot believe some of the stuff I hear coming out of peoples mouths sometimes. I don’t know if they actually know what it is that they are saying or they just don’t care. I’m not judging if this is their actual opinion because heaven knows I’m trying to understand before I judge but can y’all help me out and just tell me what you think would be a proper response to hearing this stuff.
1.) She rejected me and said that she didn’t want to have sex with me, that girl is a *****.
2.) Oh so you guys are best friends now? Well, I was friends with both of you guys before you guys became friends, so I should be included in your hangouts.
3.) She says she is bisexual…JUST PICK ONE! Like am I right?
4.) Why was she acting like that if she didn’t want attention from people? She got attention just not the kind she was hoping for.
5.) I heard that she made-out with someone over the weekend, she is such a slut.
6.) She barely eats anything anymore, I think she just wants attention from people.
There are many other things very similar to these examples, most of the time I try to see what that person sees and why they are saying stuff like this, but I usually end up getting super frustrated because I don’t think like that and I can’t seem to wrap my head around why they are saying it. Sometimes I’ll try and give a point about why something is happening like that or why it’s none of our business but that just makes the person angry and they question why I would even stand up for them, or why I would think doing something like that is okay (like saying that that girl isn’t a slut for making out with someone, she is just someone who wants to be herself and have some fun) But I really just want to know what y’all would say or you know give me some tips on how to handle these situations better, because dealing with these comments makes me sad and frustrated.