I do this all over the city of NEW YORK to get by my loneliness and yes that is me in the photos
1st picture I call it “The Hangman”
2nd & 3rd picture I call it “The Batman”
The benefit:
– I get myself a nice exorcise
– People cheer and take pics
– Adrenaline rush
This is almost my last resort for emergency cope. what can I do I’ve been single my whole so I make the best of it by going all out for myself I’m trying
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Hi Sadlife
Did you join match.com or eharmony yet?
I have well I visted the websites I turned back after it asked me to create a name for my username. I honestly after talking to many girls my life time I can’t date or be around a girl that is cool and popular and just gets what they you know. But I plan to return myself back to the site and worst case I can just close the account and be done but still no matter what I will still collect my anime figures like on my yesterday’s post and I’ll continue to do these tricks
One guy on his bike asked me “Hey bud what’s wrong? You forget to take your meds?”
I answered “What do you mean I’m taking me meds now look and I go and do the hangman again” bhahhahaha
That’s a great comeback. lol
You’re tricks are great and you are very nice
Just go after a different type of girl than you normally do
If you don’t want pretentious then get one that’s cute but wears no makeup
Makeup equals more likely the stuff you’re trying to stay away from
Not always, but this is a good guide for you to get a down to earth gal
And Hello 1Fineday
@ 1fineday thank you I slowly came up with this on my own over time and thanks for the compliment and advice I’m going now to the website I built some confidence here especially after I posted some pictures of myself these past few days I’m usually shy but guess it’s a little different or maybe I got nothing to lose IDK but truly appreciate your responses and if you ever need anything you can email me and it’s the same as my username @ gmail.com
Thank You Sadlife
I hope you meet someone nice
Keep dating until you do
And “day2day” posted a comment below that’s a good tip too. Maybe try meeting girls in person as well as online. Maybe in person is better. See what’s better for you.
But you seem better like you have hope so don’t be too sad. Maybe someday your name will change to notsosadlife
Thank You for the email address too
Thanks hahaha notsosadlife would be awarding especially since I’ve been carrying this username for a year now. So I registered to match.com I would provide the link of my new profile to you but that will result this comment being awaited for moderation. And I know I think I read day2day comment like 10 times I’m just not sure what to reply
I love the photos, it show something that makes you happy and I would enjoy to do so as well.
Thanks you should try it like I said its a nice exercise. It just puts a strain on your shoulders and breathing because of the blood flow. But it’s fun and you get use to it the hardest one is Batman I’m in shape and it still puts a strain on me
What borough are you in? There’s no other cars or pedestrians to be seen…kinda rare for NYC… (unless you’re in LI or SI) 😛
This is In Manhattan this the bike path by Chelsea Piers I’m normally doing this either through Times Square or Through midtown around 7th avenue during rush hour.
I moved to CT sucks here but I still drive down to NY anyone from there let me know
Very cool, possibly terminal – how newyorkish!
Thank You SeeSmith I came up with this myself I tried this in CT and people still liked it but I stood out too much. So I just stick to New York
Whatever works is a good thing. Keep it up! 🙂
@ Jadedjewel thank you for the support
Nice! I can’t even ride a bike without injuring myself, pedestrians, cars, or the street.
@ EmptyPluto Thanks and I crash and fall every time I’ve fallen on one lady when doing this in Washington square park (popular park in downtown Manhattan) wow was she pissed and hot to. Anyways I’d love for you to try this. I should make a YouTube video of me doing this through the city while a friend records from behind bet it would get a lot of hits
Dude, if I tried this, I’d end up killing several people until I got it right. Oh well, sometimes sacrifices must me made…
If you want to get a girl it’s not really all that hard. First you need to get over the fear of rejection. Then dress well, act normal and go to populated areas like the mall or a busy market in your city. Then start casual conversations with girls. Many guys play a pure numbers game, you could hit on 100 girls or more, most will say no, but one or two might say yes.
It’s also a question of your standards and what you’re bringing to the table. Another thing you can do is join groups, hobby clubs or take a course at a university. Don’t forget that women also get rejected or get treated badly or are lonely for other reasons so if you’re a nice guy they might give you a chance.
Incidentally I never liked dating sites much-always had a much better reaction when I’ve met girls IRL and they were usually way more attractive then what I’d get online. It might work for some people but not my thing.
@ Day2Day thank you for that. I like applying for the university course especially since my education is some college so I will consider that part and I already finished registering to match.com it will be tough since I have been single my whole life and I’m 26. If i had some relationships my confidence would had beeen stronger especially since I would already have past experience. But that ant the case here
Well Sadlife you do have beautiful blue eyes that look kind… so you do have that going for you physical attribute wise…. and you seem to be a kind enough person here on this site. I don’t know why it’s so easy for some and so difficult for others to find that special someone. I’ve never been able to make much sense of it myself…. and given my hideous record of relationship faux paus, mistakes, and nightmares, I am by no means some love guru.
I appreciate that jadedjewel and the compliment so you’ve seen my post than you already know some about me. Thanks yeah I respect every single member on this forum especially since we are all here for some reason. I honestly am surprised how much I relate with a lot of members on different set of issues. I still have yet to meet a online scammed victim such as myself here I hope I never do though my story was brutal. Anyways I’ll try some more talking and being me and approaching more casually.
I do do a lot of lurking and reading people’s past posts and stories… helps me get the gist of their background and understand where they’re coming from better. Plus am analytical by nature so I can’t help it. You seem very sweet.
Wow
Haha yeah Jazzy I am trying all kinds of things to cheer me up just like my yesterday’s post on my anime figure collection
Sadlife, that is totally cool what you do on your bike. I wish I could’ve done that in my younger years! If that helps you cope, keep it up. You look badass.
Thanks as soon as spring comes I’ll get back to doing this again it’s too cold now. It requires a lot of breathing and cold air is torture hahaha ahhh what am I saying I’ll I’m going to do it regardless 🙂 thanks a lot
Oh one day I was doing the “Hangman” down a busy street and I stopped next to an old man riding a motorcycle but it looked like those motorcycles that food delivery stores have.
He goes “wow that looks incredible”
I go “thanks can you do it?”
He goes “I think so”
Light turns green him and I are both doing the hang man and ppl start to cheer that was my best story of this
Really nice 😀
thank you spectralgiraffe 🙂 I try to be as creative as possible it’s fun even though it’s only temporary
wow ! that’s amazing @sadlife958 .
You make it seem so easy. I can’t even ride a bicycle without getting hurt. lol .
It seems that you do really cool stuffs. Yesterday I saw your anime collections . That was huge ?
Thanks A Dying soul it takes a lot of practice and stamina to do this I literally hold it for a long minute this is through traffic on rush hour with a adrenaline I can hold it even longer. The batman is very very difficult
Oh you saw my other post thanks 🙂 IDK if it was only the first picture that you saw because half hour later I edited and uploaded my entire collection. And I really like your Avatar I love bleach
Indeed. It requires a lot of hardwork and practise.
Isn’t as easy as it seems.
You seem to be flying through the air with that bike.
Yes I’ve seen all those wonderful pics of your entire anime figure collection. And I loved them.
I’ve never seen anything like this in my life. Haha
So I was pretty amazed.
Such a massive collection of anime figure you have
BTW ,thanks.
I love bleach too.
@ A dying Soul hahaha yeah I keep my animation on that bike.
Oh wow thank you so much that’s something that I really needed 🙂 I have a bleach set coming it’s kempachi (pretty big) and Gin ichimaru it will take a while to come since its coming from Singapore. Oh BTW when ever I see your Avatar it reminds me of the theme “senna” from bleach itself I’d like to do something about mine I’d probably put majin vegeta or Ken Kaneki Dr Ghoul.
I think this is incredible! The rush of feelings when you’re doing this must be the opposite of “sad life”… 🙂
How long have you been doing this?
Thank you very much I have been doing this for about 8 years even though it is temporary I feel like the opposite of sadlife when doing that 🙂
this looks awesome! glad you have something you enjoy doing 🙂
Awe Thanks Amarie I appreciate that 🙂
😀 I would call the pose on the second picture superman on a bike XD
Superman your right it shouda been superman but draging on Batman for all these years I now can’t change it lol