we all try to cheer ourselves up even if the result is hiding your face at your home and trying to be someone else that’s a favorite
Or how about when I’m at work
I try to stay happy, be the things that I love and bring the things that I love everywhere I go so I’m protected from the pain that loneliness always brings
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Hey, i’m playing/singing robbie williams songs at almost 1am on a tuesday, so i’m all up for doing whatever you can to feel better, lol. Cool cosplay btw, i cosplayed a few times but… yeah, cheap, bad cosplay = not so good results in my case, haha.
Hey count me in 🙂 I play “call me maybe” and “I’m a Barbie girl” driving locally with my windows down people’s reaction on stop lights priceless
Whatever the method, glad you’ve found a way to be happy, or at least happier.
@Austexam Thanks happier is what it is I appreciate the comment
You’re very funny Sadlife
The ballerina of death likes you
Maybe you want to chat with her and see what happens? Maybe have her send you a picture and chat see if you like each other?
Hahhab sure but IDK perhaps anyone that would see this sp will turn away from me now lol just kidding. Everyone knows my email so its the same as my username @gmail BTW thx 1FineDay
What sort of loneliness are you talking about? I realize co-workers aren’t exactly friends, but sometimes they can be if you form good relationships. It seems you have a good sense of humor so it shouldn’t be hard for you to make friends.
If you’re talking about dating-then that shouldn’t be an issue either, since you look like a fairly normal guy and don’t have anything that would be a deal-breaker for any girl. So perhaps you lack confidence? Or you’re depressed?
Do you have any friends/family? It might help to talk to someone in your closest circle. If you don’t perhaps see a therapist. Many years ago I was depressed, I saw a therapist and while she wasn’t a huge help, the fact that she listened, gave some objective opinions/advice it did help somewhat. So couldn’t hurt to try and a few sessions wouldn’t cost very much. Best of luck.
Every sort of loneliness the top of them is being single the other being broke. My life loneliness only struct me this hard because I didn’t chose to live for myself. If I did things would had been much different my mom was given all that had planned for my future it went to waste. Loneliness is my greatest pain
And when I say single I mean that I was single for my entire life
I think we’ve all struggled with the types of loneliness you mentioned. Life isn’t fair nor is it easy. What you get out of life is a function of what you put into it. Even if you had a gf right now, what good is that if you’re broke and can’t take her anywhere?
Women also look for a guy who can be a potential life partner, someone who’s ambitious because down the road they might want kids. So to be more desirable to the opposite sex you need to bring certain basics qualities to the table. If you don’t have those then your prospects will remain low. If you’re not too picky then you can find someone in a similar situation but how long will that last?
I’ve been lonely most of my life-although I’d dated a number of girls over the years, it’s less than I would’ve liked. But like you I struggled with money, career and other things and never felt quite ready for a long term relationship. I’ve learned over time to put aside my loneliness and focus on improving my life. Once I’m in a better position it’ll be a lot easier to find the type of girl I tend to go for.
So try to take a ‘big picture’ view of your life, with the loneliness just being one aspect that needs to be fixed. It’s like hunger-are you looking to just have one good meal or do you want to be able to feed yourself over the long term? Also while I know how bad loneliness can be, it’s not the worst thing in the world and it can be rectified.
Your second outfit reminds me of someone at school who used to dress, almost exactly, like that. I wonder if he was going through something now. The facades of normalcy we put up are stunningly convincing.
Well he must of been very handsome 🙂 and yes most likely he was feeling like me or probably opposite. You never know what ppl are feel they can look happy when there sad. People at my job make fun of me but I know what my reasons are and I don’t dress that way all the time just when days come like today. You like to sing I wish I had that talent and hobby but this one works just fine and you sing really good btw.