Legal matters probably. Besides you can look up methods other places and get info you need. This is more a place to talk and share your feelings with like minded people and get support you may not have in your real life. Not everyone on here is actively suicidal either, like myself, but have suicide on their minds a lot. It’s a place to not feel so alone and isolated as many suicidal people do. It can and has helped some people, but people have died too by completing their suicide regardless of being a part of the site. You do find a lot of acceptance here even when you want to commit suicide, not everyone will try and talk you out of it. Try it for a while and if not for you, you can leave and never come back. Some people come and go back and forth for years. It’s for whatever you need when you need it. Just not in depth discussions of methods or to find a partner though.
I have to say I agree. Just joined here the other day and lots of people bitching BUT I have chatted with some cool people that actually helped me a shit ton so write a post about how you’re feeling doesn’t hurt to try ! Good luck to ya
thank you. it is just disappointing that according to the rule we cannot openly talk about how to exit with dignified way so give no useful and practical help for those who made a final decision , my post asking how to adjust helium method have already been removed.
I think they just don’t want to accept liability if anything happens to a member, which is fair enough. I just recently joined, more so for the reason I just wanted to talk to people who wouldn’t give me a sappy “things will get better” “life is so amazing” speech, if I hate life then I do, if life has done nothing but eff me up then it has and I want to complain about it, or express myself without having some sappy inspirational bullshit story about how to better my life. To me, Hell is on earth.
you got a point. they feel like they saved other’s asses by doing so but in fact what they do to desperate people makes the situation worse, trying to fit people under the rule of hope that you are gonna be ok in the future while he or she is dying inside, slowly.
We all know the methods anyway, is there any method that we ain’t researched? I don’t think there’s gonna be another one added to the cannon unfortuantely.
yeah. I don’t need help with M- errrr…. technique. 🙂 I know some ways that are totally lethal, not all pretty or painless. Talking to people who aren’t falling all over themselves to save me, or resentful for feeling like they HAVE to rescue me, that is priceless.
Not too long ago there was experience project. While it was up and running you could chat with just about anyone about just about anything. I was there every day chatting about suicide for many months. It was a free for all. Interestingly, even though you could talk about methods all you liked, i never encountered another person on that site who had useful method knowledge to impart. In fact people where often putting their ignorance of method on display. Based on that, you are not missing anything here really. Google on my friend..meanwhile the emotional support, whatever you decide to do, is here like nowhere else. best of luck to you.
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Whining is spelled with one N, not two.
thanks for the correction. I am not native tho
Legal matters probably. Besides you can look up methods other places and get info you need. This is more a place to talk and share your feelings with like minded people and get support you may not have in your real life. Not everyone on here is actively suicidal either, like myself, but have suicide on their minds a lot. It’s a place to not feel so alone and isolated as many suicidal people do. It can and has helped some people, but people have died too by completing their suicide regardless of being a part of the site. You do find a lot of acceptance here even when you want to commit suicide, not everyone will try and talk you out of it. Try it for a while and if not for you, you can leave and never come back. Some people come and go back and forth for years. It’s for whatever you need when you need it. Just not in depth discussions of methods or to find a partner though.
I have to say I agree. Just joined here the other day and lots of people bitching BUT I have chatted with some cool people that actually helped me a shit ton so write a post about how you’re feeling doesn’t hurt to try ! Good luck to ya
thank you. it is just disappointing that according to the rule we cannot openly talk about how to exit with dignified way so give no useful and practical help for those who made a final decision , my post asking how to adjust helium method have already been removed.
I think they just don’t want to accept liability if anything happens to a member, which is fair enough. I just recently joined, more so for the reason I just wanted to talk to people who wouldn’t give me a sappy “things will get better” “life is so amazing” speech, if I hate life then I do, if life has done nothing but eff me up then it has and I want to complain about it, or express myself without having some sappy inspirational bullshit story about how to better my life. To me, Hell is on earth.
you got a point. they feel like they saved other’s asses by doing so but in fact what they do to desperate people makes the situation worse, trying to fit people under the rule of hope that you are gonna be ok in the future while he or she is dying inside, slowly.
So very true. The life “savers” are just hoping upon hope. “Dying inside, slowly” pretty well sums it up.
We all know the methods anyway, is there any method that we ain’t researched? I don’t think there’s gonna be another one added to the cannon unfortuantely.
yeah. I don’t need help with M- errrr…. technique. 🙂 I know some ways that are totally lethal, not all pretty or painless. Talking to people who aren’t falling all over themselves to save me, or resentful for feeling like they HAVE to rescue me, that is priceless.
my only rule is no lobotomies. Do it right or don’t do it at all.
Not too long ago there was experience project. While it was up and running you could chat with just about anyone about just about anything. I was there every day chatting about suicide for many months. It was a free for all. Interestingly, even though you could talk about methods all you liked, i never encountered another person on that site who had useful method knowledge to impart. In fact people where often putting their ignorance of method on display. Based on that, you are not missing anything here really. Google on my friend..meanwhile the emotional support, whatever you decide to do, is here like nowhere else. best of luck to you.