Chear up, im sure that inside you are a real winner. Your mom loves you so much that she want god to bless what kind amazing person you are. Shes forcing you, because she wants you the best. Even if she does not say that often, your a winner in her eyes.
Have you tried talking to her? Telling her that you don’t like going to church. Most parents I think would find acceptance if their child choose to pry from their religious beliefs. But I also know a few that would stop at nothing to to keep you from loosing your faith.
I know it might be difficult. It’s hard to stand up to a parent. But you continue to say “I’m not going” and continue to be defiant, she can’t physically make you go..
I hope this issue gets resolved. Keep us updated okay?
i tried but she doesn’t care about my opinion
she doesn’t know what to do with me so she wants that the church fixes me instead of her
i just feel so uncomfortable in that place
but thank u for your words
There are lots of parents, especially religion fanatics that believe they know whats best. In many cases parents dont even know how to show that they love you, but in your case trying to forge you in to something else is a proof she loves you, and yes, thats not what she should be doing. What you need is distance from her, but i know thats impossible for you, so i would suggest putting on a mask. If you act like just a little bit like she wants you to, you will have less conflicts and sometimes thats the only way with someone, that believes in god.
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Chear up, im sure that inside you are a real winner. Your mom loves you so much that she want god to bless what kind amazing person you are. Shes forcing you, because she wants you the best. Even if she does not say that often, your a winner in her eyes.
thank u for your words but i’m sure that she thinks i’m a loser
Have you tried talking to her? Telling her that you don’t like going to church. Most parents I think would find acceptance if their child choose to pry from their religious beliefs. But I also know a few that would stop at nothing to to keep you from loosing your faith.
I know it might be difficult. It’s hard to stand up to a parent. But you continue to say “I’m not going” and continue to be defiant, she can’t physically make you go..
I hope this issue gets resolved. Keep us updated okay?
i tried but she doesn’t care about my opinion
she doesn’t know what to do with me so she wants that the church fixes me instead of her
i just feel so uncomfortable in that place
but thank u for your words
There are lots of parents, especially religion fanatics that believe they know whats best. In many cases parents dont even know how to show that they love you, but in your case trying to forge you in to something else is a proof she loves you, and yes, thats not what she should be doing. What you need is distance from her, but i know thats impossible for you, so i would suggest putting on a mask. If you act like just a little bit like she wants you to, you will have less conflicts and sometimes thats the only way with someone, that believes in god.
i’ll do that
thanks