What happens when we push our support away from us due to the constant need or dependence on them? Then what? My Wife told me today she was sick of being my support…
Maybe it’s time to go…
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its time to start trying to support yourself? … I mean I hate saying this because its always so amazing and nice to have someone around, but with this messed up society..with all its selfishness, sometimes people are way to caught up in their own stuff to even think about other people. I would just try to wait it out and try to help yourself. you know ?
It sounds like you’re dependent on her and making her tired. It’s perfectly normal but it isn’t healthy for either of you. If you’re considering suicide because your mate wants some space, you may want to talk to someone about your relationship. Counseling can do wonders for people who commit to it.
I would say that neither you have to push yourself to suicide, nor can you tolerate that your wife tells you that. That is absolutely cruel from her side and a loving life would never say such a thing, let alone in such a way.
The personal experience is that one heals oneself quicker when it is more on his own support than when expecting it constantly from others. So you can divide your own little progresses with some entertaining with people. I mean, I would avoid talking about your depression with them because people are not prepared to deal with such technical thing, but you can find support in people by just hanging out and playing around or doing sport etc