Everyone who has ever encouraged to to keep living are just plane old shelfish how could you want someone that you see suffering so bad to stay alive people may call me selfish because im only thinking about myself but why cant i everybody else is i just want to curl up somewhere and die a lady once told me that she didnt like people like me because her son is fighting to live while im fighting to die you know what i told here ill prey harder for me and her son to switch places because if i was in her son shoes there would be no fighting why dont people get that im tited of living this life tired of having to lie about me being okay and having to fight the urge not to cut or burn or od on pills maybe if i just end it then they’ll understand where im coming from
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how can they understand if ur dead? no one will understand cause to understand requires being like us, it suks but its true. one of my teachers once said (on the topic of suicide) to think of all the people worse off than u in life and how they still live nd do we think it is fare for us to end our lifes (she was a bit cracked to say the least) saying that we would be beacons of light to show them what to do if we killed ourself was prehaps not the best thing i could have said lol
Humans are selfish, it is out nature. The people who do see that you want to do that, just want you to exhaust all options available to you before you act, because for some, all it takes is to reach out to those options (psychiatrist, letting out to a loved one, pills, anything that can help) A lot of people dont want to keep you in pain, they want to give you a way out of pain. Sure its selfish for them to want you ti keep living, but they also want you to be out of the pain, and there is ways, there is those options available, take them. Do what you can, because after you’re gone, you’re gone, you want to make sure that is truly the only option before you act. I know how you’re tired of living as well, i am every day as well, but i find ways to cope, and sometimes i get better for a bit, for a lot, there is a way out! You can do it! sorry if i was repititive with any points!
selfish [ˈsɛlfɪʃ]
adj
1. chiefly concerned with one’s own interest, advantage, etc., esp to the total exclusion of the interests of others
2. relating to or characterized by self-interest.
Yeah… you by the definition given above are selfish as well. eh, truth be told everyone is, it’s a human nature! 🙂 and you shouldn’t really call them selfish in this case because they just want to see you alive and well, you are obviously still alive just not well 🙁
you need to get help and there is nothing wrong with that! 🙂
You may think you know what it’s like to be in that kid shoes but you don’t. you have absolutely no clue! just like how those people don’t know how hard it is to deal with depression! ;l
Please, try to get this idea (tired of life=suicide is the only solution) outta your head! it’s wrong and neither you nor those people will understand anything from it since you would be dead ._.
please please PLEASE take a good care of yourself and if you needed to talk you got us 😀
*virtual hug* <3
@gotnothingonmymind how is tired of life=suicide illogical it makes perfect scence!
Hey drift. Someone said something like “people don’t want to die, they just don’t want to live with the pain anymore.” The problem is that everyone’s pain is different and felt and dealt with in different ways. No one can really truly feel someone else’s pain but what they can do is be there for that person and listen. A lot of people can only relate to their own lives so that is the only way they know how to “keep you alive” because that’s what they would want for themselves. Put them in horrible depression, complete hopelessness, and take away all motivation and desire from their lives and then see what they have to say.
i totally agree with you, i can get so pissed off by people who say suicide is selfish.
i think saying that is the most selfish thing ever. anyway, i am happy there are still people who share my opinion
Why is being selfish considered a bad thing. When more people are selfish in terms of caring, loving, and appreciating themselves unconditionally that’s perfect. From that place the best decisions are made.
What we think is counter to what actually works best. People compromise themselves and get themselves in trouble all the time instead of being selfish and being true to their own gut. We best re negotiate our relationship with certain words and what they mean. Cheers!
@Procel
a) i didn’t say tired of life=suicide i said tired of life=suicide is the only solution .. there is a big difference!
b) i didn’t say it was illogical i said wrong!
c) it’s wrong because suicide is not the only solution and he/she is tired of life for a reason which he/she needs to work on to live happy and well just like how those people want him/her to be! 🙂
Mwtele, you hit nail on the head. Great comment.