K so I have this friend who I know isn’t ok. But he refuses to talk to me! Its pissing me off becuz he always helps me and just for once I want to help him. But he won’t let me! Is there something wrong with me? Jsidjrnneidodjsndndijdnrbrh!!!!! My life already has enough shit. Why does he have to do this to me! Doesn’t he know I understand! Why won’t he let me in! I want to be there for him but how can I if he keeps me in the dark….. I knows he’s lost people in his life. So I understand that he may be scared to let me in. Buy I don’t leave. That’s the one thing I won’t ever do is leave! Why can’t he see this…..
Sorry if u had to read my rant. Had I get it out… Already cried in class. Had to go the bathroom to finish…
-Morgan.. RawrImaTurtle..
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Nothings wrong with you im sure but sometimes people have been acting like everything is ok to the point that they just cant allow themselves to tell others, otherwise. My best advised to you is to let your friend know that you know that they are not ok and that they need to know that you just want them to know that they have a friend in you who they can go to whit anything and everything that together you guys can make things better
I have. He just yells at me and tells me to drop it or leave
Maybe he knows you don’t leave so he doesn’t need to talk in order to get attention and concern. Too much yelling at you for no expressed reason and I’d be concerned you could also be a scapegoat while he doesn’t grow having to stretch for help.
Could be so many things…on some knd of regular basis and perhaps through short notes or other non verbal ways remind him you are there and then make sure you have support elsewhere too so it doesn’t take you down too far.
if you have told them all that then he knows he can count on you and he will go to u when his ready
Yah he told me today he’s not ready to talk yet
I believe he knows you have enough going on in your life and doesn’t want to add to your worries. You’ve made it know that you are there to help and that you won’t leave … that’s good be there … and stay there … but do as he asks and drop the subject, he will talk when he is ready, in the meantime just act as if the “situation” never existed. Do and say everything you would normally do as if you didn’t know about it.
Sometimes that does MORE to “fix” a problem than actually talking about it. But above all else, don’t push, and be patient.
wise dawg
thanks dawg 🙂