I finaly took the courage to tell my friend what is going on in my life, i told her about the cutting, the attempts on suicide and i told the reasons; betrayal by the guy i loved, betrayal by my family and also the back stabbing and bullying by my school mates.
Her response: “OMG your a freak! Get over it everybody has problems, but they don’t go killing them selves right away!”
Maybe i am overreacting, maybe i am being stupid and all those things are not really a proper reason to kill myself, but right there and then i wanted comfort, i might be sounding selfish but i realy did need some nice words right then. Or is she right? Am i overreacting?
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You aren’t over reacting! And She’s your friend and u trusted her enough to tell her these thins and she goes and says those things. I wouldn’t say she a true friend. I’m so sorry. I’d love to be your friend and help you threw this or be here to listen. Your aloud to email me if u ever need someone. Ill be here <3. Stay strong. You are a beautiful person!
In no way are you over reacting. She probably has some issues going on that she hasn’t told you. She may think she’s worse off than you. So in a way she might be the selfish one. But I’m always here if you need to talk to someone. (:
Hey I know I’ve been commenting on all your posts but I find that alot of what your are going through is either exactly what I went through 2 years ago or just awhile ago. My ex best friend who stabbed me in the back a month ago said almost the same exact thing when she found out! It hurt soo much, but you are NOT over reacting at all! Don’t ever let anyone tell you that suicide is not a big deal or that what you are going through is stupid cause its not. Those people are the stupid ones.
you shouldnt doubt how you are feeling just because someone felt like being horrible about the situation, your friend is eather going through something hard right now as well or they are just a jerk
i know you guys are probaly all right ad i thank you for your advice and understanding, but it”s hard to forget what she said…i mean i have known her for 5 years, she was my first and until now only friend of mine who is actually also a girl (i don’t get on quite well with other girls) and we nearly could read each others mind, thats how good we knew each other and also she was the very fisrt person i ever trusted with this suicidal secret and then she goes and says that? i still hear her words going around in my head…it really just hurt me
I still hear everyone’s words about my problems too. My mother screaming at me when she found out, my ex best friends words telling me it wasn’t a big deal, my teacher telling me I was doing it all for attention (which I wasn’t at all….I hate attention of other people). They ring in my ears everyday. It is hard to get over.