I wont lie – I’ve broken a couple of hearts.
The boys I went out with; they were amazing, loving, romantic people, but i just couldn’t keep an interest and I don’t understand why! Was it just because they weren’t right for me? Or is there something wrong with me; because I feel like I am unable to love… It pains me so much when I see them hurting because of me, but I really don’t know how else I can go about it.
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That’s how relationships work. We love who don’t want us, and are loved by those we don’t want.
That is, for me, the worst lesson in life. Love is nothing like what we like to think. It’s just about power and domination. Nothing more different than politics.
Can you be in love by yourself?
Or do you need someone to love?
Isn’t love just the feeling you attain when you have finally reached peace in your life?
Loving all, everything, even yourself?
And isn’t a relationship the act of sharing that love with another?
Imagine a love that has no opposite.
That stands alone no matter what.
This is you at peace.
they just aren’t the right guys for you. it’s really that simple.
the question really is, why do you start the realtonships in the first place? because you always know they are not really the right ones. you don’t tell them, or anyone else, but you always know from the beginning, you just know. even if you hope they prove you wrong along the way.
i would start by letting the next guy in on the secret why you start a relationship in the first place…even if it’s nothing better than not wanting to be alone. be HONEST, i know it’s hard, but you can’t keep on lying to yourself.