“Hang in there, it will get better, lots of people care about you, I do and we’ve never met. Just get some professional help and meds, you’ll see – life is great” complete B S. Pull the trigger, our life is meaningless, we are so insignificant, it’s comical.
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Life is meaningless, pointless and we are completely insignificant. It has taken me 34 years to figure it out, but it is true. I cannot make it through a day without feeling sick about it, but now I am just doing whatever the hell I want, because it all means shit right???
Forgot to say, yes, false advice and concern is terrible. Even worse when it comes from someone who really does know you.
The things they say are the things they feel they need to tell you to keep you alive. They are not thinking about how you are feeling just they need/want you to be there still. They wont be able to forgive theselves if they don’t try and stop you. So if you think about really everything they do or say is SELFISH even if it is out of love care concern. They need you so they are thinking of themselves the one thing they like to pin on you. Thats how I see it.
I guess life can be great looking out the right eyes. I haven’t been blessed with the wiring to see the good in life. The more I experience the world the more stupid and utterly pointless everything seems (as cliche as that sounds). Doesn’t the fact that people need meds to go on make you realize that it is? Dumb yourself down and numb yourself to your own thoughts so you can walk around in a drug induced daze with an ignorant smile on your face. Just fake your way through it and everything will be fine. Sorry but I don’t see the purpose. I do find it comical that people seem to think everything they do is so important when really what is it all for? Makes no sense to me.
Life is pointless and meaningless when looked at objectively.
But some people manage to overcome that and still keep going.
Maybe the words seem false and fake to you, but to some people they are a lifeline.
As far as adults go, honestly, makes no difference whether we live or die.
But as far as these kids and teens, it is pretty much a waste for them to toss out before they even had a chance to make their own decisions.
My kid did not even live to see his teen years because of our genetic predisposition to darn near every disease. So if I can get a few of them on here and other sites to think before they off themselves, then that satisfies me just fine.
I’ve known life was meaningless for years. But in the culture I grew up in suicide was seen as something done by weak and evil people. And there was a lot of other intolerance for anything not specifically contained therein. Which was ironic looking at history in general.
I lost myself in games, books, movies, music, and hustling money (in my younger days promiscuous activity). Did not fix anything…just allowed for me to keep going.
Eventually I just got tired. The abuse was past, the betrayals were past, the majority of the really jacked up things were past. Just wanted to get out of here before something else bad happened. And then the sickness came back and I said it is finally time.
I may not know these people personally, but be damned if that will stop me from caring. And if anyone here has a sliver of hope to keep living I am going to encourage it because it is their decision.
As far as those who are at the end and want to die, I’ll wish them a peaceful journey.
Bottom line do not knock the advice and the caring, because it could be important to someone even if it is utter crap to you.
Correction
“As far as adults go, honestly, makes no difference whether we live or die depedning on our circumstances and perspective.”
what I’ve learned through the years is we’re all selfish (to varying degrees) and not to take people words to heart
I dont believe it will get better f*ck that.